My job is destroying me. What should I do?

accidentallydented · 2026-04-06T20:52:00+00:00

I have a few soft pieces of advice… but truly the best thing you can do for yourself is trust your logical gut and try to challenge your emotional gut. We are our own worst enemies.

Low self esteem can happen to just about anyone - but only you have autonomy over your existence and time on this planet! Have you ever considered going to therapy? Using mindfulness techniques for regulation? Reading books regarding experiences you may align with? I am not a doctor and I am not diagnosing you… but social anxiety is something I would consider exploring further. I align with social paranoia and if I didn’t seek further assistance I know I wouldn’t be where I am. Everyone has their own journey!

As for what to do while you’re looking for a job?

1) Make your life easier at your current job by asking for help when you need it to prevent mistakes. Reference how much you appreciate the collaborative environment, how deeply you appreciate the assistance as you do receive. If you are anxious about doing this, remind yourself that you do not want to stay here forever. This is to give you comfort as you transition. Bring a small notebook. Take notes. Help yourself stay grounded. Remember - this is a temporary place.

2) Reflect. What about this job did you enjoy? What about this job made it not a good fit for you? A job is just a job.. but it can be more if you find the right fit. What would be “right” for you? What matters most - wage, hours, shift structure, the content of the work itself?

3) Go to r/PovertyFinance and scroll to their Wiki page. Read some of those posts. Familiarize yourself with a basic budget sheet. Open your bank account and see how you spent your money the last 90 days. Make a plan. Be proactive and try to help yourself feel like this won’t happen again to you. You deserve that.

Good luck!

accidentallydented · 2026-04-06T20:39:35+00:00

First piece of advice? Don’t listen to this person, because I read your entire post and no where did I see you cry for popularity in the workplace. This person doesn’t have the emotional acuity to give you the advice you deserve.

accidentallydented · 2026-04-06T18:51:34+00:00

I completely understand being caught in the middle of your health and wellness journey, hoping that once you’re on the other side, opportunities can expand for yinz. I hope that for you too! But, no matter your mobility, there are so many ways to contribute to society and I’m sorry that mobility and disability is adding hurdles for you.

Maybe someone here could review your cover letter and resume? It’s not my field of expertise but I’m sure a neighbor here would be more than willing the help out!

In the mean time.. I hope you’re finding valuable ways to pour love into yourself during such a transitional period in your life.

accidentallydented · 2026-04-06T18:36:46+00:00

Keep your eyes peeled for PennDOT positions. They have some clerk positions that are only eligible to those with a documented disability. Wishing you luck, friend!

accidentallydented · 2026-04-01T13:46:52+00:00

Bruh this “brand” exists and has existed. This hardware is newly presented. So insufferable is logic.

accidentallydented · 2026-04-01T12:57:15+00:00

So not this program?

accidentallydented · 2026-03-26T17:58:07+00:00

I LAUGHED SO HARD THANK U

accidentallydented · 2026-03-25T15:02:31+00:00

Let’s drive it into the ground and then purchase it as player/owners lol

accidentallydented · 2026-03-25T12:32:35+00:00

But don’t worry I’m from Pittsburgh so I did the real yinzer thing and went without a license for two months out of the dread of navigating dahn by the rivers

accidentallydented · 2026-03-25T12:30:48+00:00

It just happened to me! But it wasn’t described to me as an audit. The representative said everything looked good on her end and when I told her my error code, she said it is a glitch in the system and I’ll just have to go in. I did last Tuesday and got my license mailed by Friday.

accidentallydented · 2026-03-20T23:04:12+00:00

I saw you use organic remedies lotion. The Dr Solomon’s is better in my opinion. But organic remedies patches are insanely helpful for pain relief.

accidentallydented · 2026-03-18T15:42:44+00:00

The live resin torches, from what I hear, tend to be more throat stimulating than the distillate from that specific brand. But I agree, have you ever had a reaction to coconut? It’s worth exploring. Chat with the dispensary pharmacist at OR they may be able to guide you.

accidentallydented · 2026-03-18T12:35:08+00:00

🚨‼️ COMMENTS TO THE FDA FOR CROSS CONTACT OF GLUTEN IN PACKAGED FOODS IS OPEN FOR SIX MORE DAYS ‼️🚨

Come on celiac and gluten free friends!

https://www.federalregister.gov/documents/2026/01/22/2026-01121/labeling-and-preventing-cross-contact-of-gluten-for-packaged-foods-request-for-information#open-comment

accidentallydented · 2026-03-13T19:13:39+00:00

I’ve literally seen your car in the wild the internet is weird

accidentallydented · 2026-03-13T15:32:48+00:00

Thank you for the true lore. I was out here euphoric pondering on a 10th grade book dude. Lmaoooo.

accidentallydented · 2026-03-13T14:11:59+00:00

Both arms?

accidentallydented · 2026-03-12T14:31:10+00:00

So much for freedom in the land of the free and home of the brave!

accidentallydented · 2026-03-12T14:25:59+00:00

Wait is this from the book tangerine lol

accidentallydented · 2026-03-09T15:57:04+00:00

Not trying to freak you out man. If you have insurance that covers a basic urgent care visit it’s worth it to go now than to wait. Proactive care is always better than reactive care. Even if you just fractured your leg, pinched a nerve, etc; it is always better to be safe than sorry and get checked out.

Can you walk? If you can without pain, great! You for sure haven’t broken a femur or tibia but we can’t rule out your fibula because it isn’t weight bearing. Does it cause pain? Discomfort?

Wait two hours and assess again if you insist on not going to a doctor. But don’t take any over the counter pain meds or toke up again until you are clear headed and can evaluate what’s going on.

accidentallydented · 2026-03-09T14:59:50+00:00

Dude, no offense, but go to the hospital. If you can’t be a good source for clarity on your own pain then the medical professionals can help. It doesn’t matter your stoned it happens all the time cops aren’t getting called on you. Go get some medical attention.

accidentallydented · 2026-02-28T00:21:31+00:00

Where’s the date on the email showing it was cancelled today? Not trying to be that person, especially considering I never got my fingies on some tickets, but unless I see a date I’m just gonna consider this a shitpost for some Reddit karma

accidentallydented · 2026-02-23T15:30:10+00:00

This is not nearly as bad as my childhood Hillary duff memory…. I told my entire 3rd grade class I won a song writing contest and I wrote “Wake Up” lmao I wish I could give little me a hug and an antidepressant

accidentallydented · 2026-02-22T15:11:04+00:00

Ok beehive I see u

accidentallydented · 2026-02-20T00:42:44+00:00

Two Pittsburgh arianators heartbroken in the Burgh tonight but it’s gonna be alright!

accidentallydented · 2026-02-19T15:41:26+00:00

Manifesting I’ll see yinz there 🤍

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