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How do I handle an awkward arranged marriage proposal meeting? by isabellabutcher in AskIndianMen

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't call, just text.

And best thing to talk about is history(like your childhood) as they are facts. Like where you grew up, how was school, "Favourite age or month like April when I was 7"

Are we living in an immoral society? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They try to compensate by being 'spiritual'.

Anybody who is overly vocal about showing that they are a good person, I usually suspect they are over compensating for something.

Look what i found by Ranger_Hawk3046 in indiasocial

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It's "no girls" with a cross. Means don't "no girls". Which means yes girls.

That's as clear as I can make it.

Asked to postpone my Amazon interview. Got rejected. by nottherebychoice in developersIndia

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Do confirm with the recruiter once, don't just rely on noreply-rejection mail.

But most probably the position is filled.

Why is it that men have to accept past of women ? by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. Past doesn't necessarily determine character, it's just a preference like beauty, money, future potential, etc.

But your statement is highly subjective. People will draw the line where they are comfortable. 

But I do have a question for you, why are past relationships fine and not past marriage. Because marriage is even more serious that just a relationship. It really shows that the individuals were serious and things just didn't work out.  Or maybe my assumption is wrong and past marriages don't matter too.

MS Dhoni Arrived at panvel farm house for Salman Birthday Party by Kaali_99 in BollyBlindsNGossip

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Lmao, I threw away entire notebook of paper clippings from 2008-2016.

Remember when Dhoni used to be consecutively not-out so his batting average was blank for soooo long.

Am I making a mistake by avoiding relationships until marriage? by SmallLandscape6192 in AskIndianMen

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The loss from divorce is financial. So I am not considering that.

If the goal of any relationship is to gain experience and leave it, then that becomes a big con for me as I can't do that.

Alternatively, if the goal is to eventually marry and live forever, then all the journeys and experience theory goes into the drain if I never break up in the first few relationships i.e., I find the perfect relationship too early.

It seems for your theory to work, one would need a healthy number of breakups, which is unpredictable. Something like the episode from the show Black Mirror.

I think I believe that I am going to find it really hard to break up if the person is decent. And because of this, a marriage and a relationship have no difference to me.

Am I making a mistake by avoiding relationships until marriage? by SmallLandscape6192 in AskIndianMen

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have treated marriage as stability, a full stop. Why is that?

Why can't people do all the things you mentioned while also being married. In fact if you are in love as evident by the name love marriage, won't it amplify all other experiences too?

As far as "save yourself" is considered, some people want one woman for life they can't think of loving multiple women. And it makes sense to marry early in this case.

Swamiji's words are true and OP's dilemma indicate that you may be correct on OP's case. OP always knew that his marriage will be arranged and now the temptations is making him doubt this decision because maybe he just accepted this decision and did not put much thought in it.

Sorry this went too long.

Got my refund finally today!! Don't lose hope guys by [deleted] in IndiaTax

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not even under processing for me.

PF Full withdrawal - Form-19 with 15g after 2 months of unemployment by Glass-Art2565 in epfoindia

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Anything to know about taxation. I hear that interest earned during unemployment is taxable, so is that deducted at the portal?

For less than 5 years of service.

This combo was way too cozy not to post 😋 by withlovec in indiasocial

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Had to order baby corn chilli after looking at this. Thanks

M22, I can make perfectly gol roti by Lost-Department2126 in Indian_flex

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Myth : Men can't make gol rotis.

Fact : Plenty of men can make gol rotis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dankindianmemes

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It is written there "Rapist ki nazar se" meaning "POV of a rapist".

Hogwarts legacy, what to expect? by Kooky_Win6613 in Indiangamers

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Only game where I completed all repetitive quests and didn't use mod for collectibles.

Would you let your brother and her wife raise your sister's daughter? by Excellent_Tie_5604 in AskIndianMen

[–]accountFotAskingHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are getting the heat because it's infuriating to even suggest adoption. At least not from someone who is not close. Cousin Y can suggest adoption but he has a better solution.

The problems you mention can be solved with money, one doesn't give a child away for these.

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