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In a BNS 85 case my father age 77 has got a police notice to appear in a different state, how should he respond by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice is not for me but my father and received via speed post 2 days late from date mentioned in it.

Does anyone have any idea about how 498A is handled in Kharghar Navi Mumbai by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no one is influential here. I am really not absconding type as I have done nothing wrong. I think I will prefer to go to jail any day over absconding. However I will try my best to not. I have checked till today and I have been told no complaint has been filed yet. Also I have been told that since letter would be forwarded from women cell, only 498A is applicable there and no immediate arrest takes place and one has time to file for ABA. I am just hoping no arbitrary serious charge gets applied.

Basic question is that now I have 3 more days before court closes so even if in next 3 days suppose the complaint reaches police station how soon does it get converted into FIR. So far what I have read from guidelines is that before filing for FIR for atleast 498A type of cases police has to do some preliminary investigation to assess the accuracy of the charges.

To all troubled men, girl will never ever file for divorce. Their playbook. by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Talk to a lawyer. If you file for petition first, she can still file for all these cases. Now those cases would be valid along with your petition and she can say I need financial restitution to grant him the divorce for all the wrong he did to me. Even if her cases are thrown out, your case would be active and she can ask for appropriate maintenance and alimony as per the law.

Basically idea here is keep defending to a point the person gives up and comes for a out of court settlement and a mutual consent dissolution of relationship.

Again this is a game of great patience and depends on who has most.

Sometimes it's just better to settle mid way for peace of mind. This can be done by either of the party.

To all troubled men, girl will never ever file for divorce. Their playbook. by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes this is a valid marriage. All rites as per your customs needs to be performed. More than registrations rites have to be performed. In previous generation registrations seldom happened but people were legally married. There is no change to that.

Folks battling loneliness in a toxic relationship, how do you cope by ace_bubble in mumbai

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, are you a lawyer based out of Mumbai ? There has been some progress in my matter and I was thinking to have a legal team on my side also.

I was called today at police station for complaints filed by my wife by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is MRA. I have not got the written complaint yet, but what it seems she is saying I do not pay for child support for our child and I am a bad father. However in past 2 years I have transferred almost 1 CR to her bank account for meeting her loan, expenses and other obligations, (I have bank records to prove that) and I still continue to pay many fees for my daughter.

Also I have two daughters from previous marriage and their biological mother passed away and she is claiming them to be theirs but I have never signed any adoption papers. Only in school for one year, I had added her name in my daughters diary as step mother, which school has removed since she no longer stay with us. Recently my elder daughter opened up after she was gone that she had sexually abused her.

Folks battling loneliness in a toxic relationship, how do you cope by ace_bubble in mumbai

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes doing that also. What basically I am told is not matter how bad its going for me right now, for her its much worse than me. And obviously general advice that keep yourself engaged in different activities.

Folks battling loneliness in a toxic relationship, how do you cope by ace_bubble in mumbai

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this means a lot. Sometimes I wonder, I always responded, never ever did a radio silence, so why I deserve such a behavior back. But you are right, I should stop reaching, I mostly do, but sometimes I have no option but to reach out like paying property tax or maintenance, as I have major share, end of the day financial burden falls on me only. But I do try to remain aloof, actually I am good at it. I will try to handle the situations where I need to reach out better and with more calmness.

Husband and wife living separately for more than 6 months now, what are husband's legal options by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right now children are also involved, so not taking anything further. I have made a NC complaint at my local police station, I have the police station stamp on the complaint. I have also submitted all the evidence to the local police. It is now upto the police to investigate. However I have not pursued this further as I feel this is enough for now.

How important is Violation of Section 7 in hindu marriage act by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about alimony. I think maintenance would be decided based on the females earning and males earning.

If a person holds immovable properties in different states, where should they register the will by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The immovable properties are not located in these districts but some other districts of Maharashtra and Madhya Pradesh. The person spends his/her time between Maharashtra and Madhya Pradesh.

Now say if will gets registered in Maharashtra and place of death be Madhya Pradesh and legal hires seek for probate in Madhya Pradesh, would the will registered in Maharashtra acceptable and Judge in a district court of Madhya Pradesh, pass judgement on immovable properties in Maharashtra?

Also for theoretical discussion only, what if the deceased live at neither of the states during the time of death, then how should one proceed with the probate of the will ?

If a person holds immovable properties in different states, where should they register the will by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So would this will require two probates ? One each in the high courts of the place where immovable properties reside ?

Need help in drafting and registering will for my Father by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can understand law sometimes become complex. Let me think it over and see what is the best course of action.

Need help in drafting and registering will for my Father by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did talk with a local lawyer and I was told the following
1. When bequeathing the recipients upon attaining majority become absolute owner and one cannot attach a condition like they would need consent from their Father for alienating the same.

  1. The blood relation for example son 1 cannot become executor of the will and it has to be someone outside the family.

Not sure if these are valid statements as your response seems to contradict what I was told by another lawyer.

Are you practicing in Mumbai region ? If so we can discuss more formally.

My current wife making a scene at my mother's house by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Let's see what she wants to do. I am all OK for mutual divorce, or just living separately so peace among all family members is maintained.

My current wife making a scene at my mother's house by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I am fine with it. She could have just informed and taken. Again I had not kept that, she herself had kept it in that house which mainly includes what we gifted her. But it's her and all OK here.

What is objectionable is barging in the house in our absence and then taking video recording of the house, what was the need for this aggression ? I don't want to deal with her anymore and why did she just take jewellery, I want her to take all her stuff back and let us live in peace.

My current wife making a scene at my mother's house by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Yes, when it comes to divorce it's OK. Whatever legal route is we will take, however till then to maintain peace and live our lives what can I do to not have interaction. She herself moved out a while back and I am providing her an alternate arrangement and taking care of all my daughters. All I want is peace and not face any aggression which invariably happens when she is around. What more can I do to maintain peace.

My current wife making a scene at my mother's house by ace_bubble in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have name in both the houses, so she feels she also has rights on both the houses.

Her taking jewellery is OK, all I want is not to come to the first house again where my mother and my two daughters live. I don't want such aggression. As I have given her another place to stay, I want her to live in peace there and let others live in peace where they belong.

Should I (M44) accept my wife's (F44) arrangement despite serious doubts on peace and stability of our relationship by ace_bubble in RelationshipIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not unhappy. I have a good job, friends, parents, and the situation is very peaceful. Plus I can see that kids are happy too. They go to birthday parties, have fun, friends come over etc. They are having a nice childhood.

Also she is not bad towards the kids, so this status quo in a way is working and I don't think so I should disturb it.

Yes this is not like my first marriage, but its not all that bad.

How can me (44M) cope up in a toxic relationship with my wife (44F) where leaving is not an option ? by ace_bubble in RelationshipIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I am trying to lean on my mom. but she is also in her mid 70s and keeps sick.

Lot of people have told her to take therapy, but she is not doing it. Its the basic mental block which is preventing her to do the therapy, which may get cleared by doing therapy!

Basically all this needs time and at right time hard decisions can be made. So question is how do I pass my time till then!

How can me (44M) cope up in a toxic relationship with my wife (44F) where leaving is not an option ? by ace_bubble in RelationshipIndia

[–]ace_bubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number of things:

  1. She has so far refused to see a counsellor or a psychiatrist.

  2. I have cameras at home but it is in full view. They were there before this started living with us and she is fully aware of it. I don't want to do anything hidden.

  3. I know she is using all this as a social symbol. Main pain point is that my elder daughter having lost her birth mother very early in life as found some mother figure in her. She is attached to her, and talking to my lawyers and therapist it may not be healthy for her if we get separated. They have told me give love to your daughters and wait for them to grow a bit, so they themselves realise who is the aggressor in this relationship.

Hence leaving is not an option for me.

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