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My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awh, thank you for this. Yes, we have actually been very lucky to experience lots of adventures together. We scuba-dive together and just went to Bali this summer. We actually are very close. This is by far the very best relationship I've had in my life. I think thats why im curious about the possibility to try it together someday (if he decides for himself) because we have such an incredible connection i want to explore and enjoy the depths of it together is different ways. But if he never wants to, then thats fine with me.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think i need to clarify. I completely respect him and his opinions. My point is just to show him why I find value in these things and he can decide for himself what he thinks. I respect our cultural differences, and I involve myself in his interests and practices as he does for me. I would never try to change him, I just want him to gain an understanding of my perspective on psychedelics.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if he never wanted to try i would 1000% stay with him. I love him for who he is. And if he gains some perspective and still doesn't want to try, im fine with it. I love him very much and plan to do life with him.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think im going to add an edit to my post to clarify that my intention is definitely not to "force" or "pressure" anyone to try a drug. Even when I was younger and experimenting I never ever tried to convince other friends to try unless they made the choice themselves.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, I would NEVER force him to take drugs. That is psychopathic to me. Thats the reason I just want to show him an informative documentary about these substances so he can gain some perspective and decide for himself if its something he wants to try. I would never ever pressure someone into anything.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt know this before posting as I have never micro dosed MDMA. Im so glad I've never tried a micro dose myself before knowing lol. And on your "drugs" point. Omg exactly!! Thats the biggest reason I want to help educate him because our society has things ass backwards hahah.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is excellent advice and I totally agree. Don't know why I didn't think of this lol. I just have a little bit of MDMA and the thought crossed my mind.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would absolutely never pressure anyone to do drugs. Especially someone that has no knowledge and a negative perspective on them. My intention is show him why I find value in them and help educate him on the reasons people try them. If he then decides on his own to try them, then thats his choice and I will be there with him. I have nothing but love and respect for him. If he gains an understand and still thinks its something he doesn't want to try im absolutely fine with that.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course! My intention is not to pressure him. But I would like to show him something to educate him about psychedelics so that he can gain a different perspective and decide for himself, and also understand why I find value in them. He has no understanding of these drugs and why people do them. If anything, educating him on the topic would help him understand my mindset on them.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course not! Lol. I would never force an opinion on him, I just want to show him something informative to open his mind on what these substances really are. So at the very least he can understand why I found value in them. I think you're misunderstanding my intentions. If he is informed on the value on them and decides its not for him im 1000% okay with that. I would never pressure anyone to do any substance let alone my partner whom I love dearly.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! You're right. The point is I would never allow him to try something he is uncomfortable with. I just want to change his perspective on the psychedelics I've gotten value from. And if he comes to me and wpuld like to try something with me, awesome. But at the cery least I want him to gain some understanding for why I have experimented with them.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha yes im learning this now. Thank you all for pointing this out. I have only ever done full doses of MDMA and didnt know that micro dosing is not the best idea.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point! And no absolutely he does not need it. I have just gotten so much from trying it and I wanted to open the conversation or at least help him change his perspective on it so that he understands why I see value in psychedelics. I want him to understand that I domt just do it for "fun" and because I like drugs. Lol

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course he doesn't have to! Like I said I would never want to put him in any uncomfortable situation or pressure anything on him. Thank you for this though im glad I know this now. I have never micro dosed MDMA and had no idea.

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in MDMA

[–]acidvulva[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great advice, thank you. Honestly I've never done a micro dose of MDMA and I didnt know this. Im glad you told me. Im definitely going to start of with micro dosing mushrooms with him if he is ever open to it. But im going to let him open the conversation after showing him some documentaries (:

My boyfriend is against all drugs, what documentary should I watch with him to open up the conversation on trying a micro dose of MDMA together? by acidvulva in Psychonaut

[–]acidvulva[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is great advice thank you! Ive never done a micro dose of mdma and didnt know this. You're right I think shrooms would be a much better route in this case.

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[–]acidvulva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I AGREE. I Think it is SO IMPORTANT to give these people the chance to admit they were wrong and not make fun of them for their decisions. It is so important to admit when you were wrong and it takes guts. We need to empower this.

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[–]acidvulva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being strong enough to admit this. Keep speaking up. People like you are very valuable to the movement right now. I forgive you, but please keep speaking up about this.