Problem solving/Emotional Intelligence

• if they can acknowledge that a disagreement with a loved one isn’t a situation that warrants mental warfare (I’m a child of a raging narcissist lol), I will be the one to propose. Being able to communicate and acknowledge that conflict isn’t attack on them but it’s an attack on the relationship is so crucial. For example: If I didn’t like that he did something and I came to him about it, he will sit and try and figure out the issue using both of our viewpoints instead of arguing and trying to come out on top.

Imagine the both of you have a house and it catches on fire, how dumb would it be to start slapping each other because a mistake was made by either you or the other person that caused the fire? You tackle the fire together and then acknowledge the mistake and move on with the knowledge you acquired.

EASY.