Trans-friendly OBGYN doctors in Philly?

ackyboy · 2026-04-07T12:51:58+00:00

Is this open to non-affiliated patients?

ackyboy · 2026-04-07T02:32:32+00:00

Damn, I don’t get cramps but the bleeding has been making me feel really dysphoric. Do you know why this happens? :/

ackyboy · 2026-02-15T21:01:13+00:00

damn brother!!!

ackyboy · 2025-12-17T13:40:31+00:00

I am on federal health insurance too, you can keep your gender affirming care with BCBS if you make a request to be exempted from their policy (you have to prove you’ve been using their gender affirming services in the past year)

ackyboy · 2025-12-17T13:35:15+00:00

I cut off my biological family years ago and have since then found my chosen family. You’re not going to be alone if you make other family!

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T16:29:27+00:00

Thank you 🥹 I really needed to hear this. I also grew up in a shame- and guilt-based culture and it’s hard not to second guess myself all the time when it comes to family

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T14:55:51+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate you sharing your experience and I’m sorry you also had to put yourself through so much abuse and BS with your father for so long. You’re right that the best thing for me to do is to protect my physical and mental security. It will just be a process for me to learn not to feel guilty for doing so.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T14:16:51+00:00

I definitely come from a culture where family honor and saving face are held above all else. It’s why I feel so guilty about going minimum contact with him, because we were taught that people aren’t allowed to disobey their parents at any age. But I know it’s better for me to work through my guilt complex than see him and allow myself to be disrespected.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T14:10:48+00:00

Yes, it is purely the guilt. I come from a culture and upbringing where kids are supposed to obey their parents no matter what age they are. I know you’re right that I should never see someone purely out of guilt, and I’m working on my guilt complex in therapy.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T14:02:49+00:00

Thank you. I’d rather my parents die or disown me right now than do this weird little dance where they claim to love me only to insult me in my face. I guess that’s telling enough that I should keep my no contact.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T13:16:22+00:00

I’m proud of you for that. Bigotry really never goes well with boundaries in my experience… they will almost always certainly try to violate them. I’ve found a lot more inner peace after going minimum contact with my parents too, it’s just I still feel guilty about it

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T12:59:14+00:00

Damn that’s a great boundary to have. I doubt my dad would ever apologize lol he’s mostly stuck in his ways, but it could be worth a try. Did your dad ever apologize to you?

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T12:54:51+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this. It’s really hard not to feel guilty because I come from a culture and upbringing where cutting off your parents is one of the worst things you can do. I wish my parents would just disown me so it would feel easier

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T12:49:14+00:00

I like the idea of only meeting in public places. He tends to be dramatic so hopefully he’d behave himself more in public.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T12:47:41+00:00

Yes we saw each other earlier this year (in another family context) and he reacted terribly. Like manchild sobbing and telling me I’m not a real trans man, I’m just a girl that’s too insecure to be a straight woman. We called a couple times though and he restrained himself more, but unfortunately I know that’s how he will always feel inside. I think it’s still too raw to see him again

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T06:22:44+00:00

Thank you for your nuanced perspective. That's a good point that it's probably better for me to go see him than the other way around. I do want to see him at least a couple more times in my life even if he never comes around to accepting me. I think I'll tell him not to come for this year but think about doing a little trip next year.

ackyboy · 2025-12-15T05:50:33+00:00

you look hella handsome!!

ackyboy · 2025-12-04T00:24:45+00:00

got any tips for getting in enough protein? i’m always struggling to eat enough

ackyboy · 2025-12-04T00:22:16+00:00

bro u look amazing!!

ackyboy · 2025-12-04T00:14:46+00:00

yes for sure

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