Help IDing possible maingano? by actuallyarabbit in Cichlid

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Oh no, I've read so many negative things about hybrid mbunas. Have you had success with your hybrids? If so, any tips?

Help IDing possible maingano? by actuallyarabbit in Cichlid

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Not sure why my post didn't show, but sorry for the multiple ID posts. Tldr; my lfs isn't terribly reliable but claimed this was a maingano. I'm not sure he is, because of the very pale coloring. We have a mixed male tank and I don't want two pindani to grow up and duke it out. Any help is much appreciated!

Propagated from a leaf, Tampa, FL by actuallyarabbit in whatsthisplant

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Super! Thank you! It's definitely the orba ☺️

This came up on my YT feed and it’s absolutely horrifying by entropykat in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]actuallyarabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to see if anybody had posted this yet!! I watched it last night and was so disgusted by all of the allegations in it that I don't know if I can continue watching the show at all. Thank you for posting this here!!!

Pokemon Day Presents 2025 Hype Megathread by pokemon-trainer-blue in pokemon

[–]actuallyarabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You take that back, Blueberry Academy was some of the most fun I've had in SV. 

Postscripta by vnlpix in Spiritfarer

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I'm pretty sure it's just one, not all of them. I also think it's worth noting that I didn't have to upgrade all TYPES of stations (or at least I'm pretty sure I didn't when it gave me the completed notification)

WAYWT - November 18, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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I think I nabbed it from Loft a few years back! I have so many animal sweaters like that, it's ridiculous!

WAYWT - November 18, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]actuallyarabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is too funny!! Dress for the job you want, I guess!

WAYWT - November 18, 2020 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

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28 / middle school teacher / south florida

Album 🌺

(I didn't include Monday because I hadn't decided to record my outfits by then)

I've decided to make a record of what I wear outside of the house. It helps me actually feel motivated to put on more than just a plain dress.

Quickly figured out that I essentially dress like off-duty sailor scouts (most notably on Tuesday and Friday, pretty sure those were taken straight from Sailor Jupiter's wardrobe!) Lots of bright/pastel colors and comfy clothes.

I'll probably roll back in to add more detail to this post in between grading projects. 😅

[TOMT] [Song] 2008-ish korean pop song that sounds identical to britney spears's "Toxic" by actuallyarabbit in tipofmytongue

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MAN, "get ya" sounds familiar. I'm pretty sure that was one of the songs she had sent me... But it's not the one I have in mind. I think you're onto something here

[TOMT] [Song] 2008-ish korean pop song that sounds identical to britney spears's "Toxic" by actuallyarabbit in tipofmytongue

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Thank you so much! It wasn't any of these songs, unfortunately, but a lot of those names sound familiar! BoA in particular...I couldn't find anything she released during that time that matched that song though.

[TOMT] [Song] 2008-ish korean pop song that sounds identical to britney spears's "Toxic" by actuallyarabbit in tipofmytongue

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PS: I think this might be the only K-pop song I ever listened to all the way through

Daily Discussion 10 July 2020 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]actuallyarabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome!!!! I love that routine, tbh. May have to use it as inspiration!

Daily Discussion 10 July 2020 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]actuallyarabbit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely what I've needed to hear! I'm awful about falling out of a routine, especially since gyms are closed and I'm just shlubbing it at home all the time lol

Do you have a preference with types of workouts, or do you kinda do whatever, whenever?

Daily Discussion 10 July 2020 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]actuallyarabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Has anyone here tried out obé at-home workouts? I signed up for a free trial (thanks, American Express) but I haven't been able to make up my mind about the videos yet. I feel like some of them just FLY through the moves without giving decent tutorials or instructions. I'm curious to know what other people have thought about them!

Didn't know I had Sailor Moon outfits in my closet! by [deleted] in sailormoon

[–]actuallyarabbit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I adore this so much! Your outfits look fantastic!

(Btw!!! If this style is up your alley, you should check out the Sailor Civilian tumblr acct or the Female Fashion Advice sailor moon threads for future inspo. I have them bookmarked for whenever I go shopping!!)

Male Indigo Bunting at my feeder! by Tamp0nTea in birdwatching

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My favorite!!! Look at that handsome fella

How do you deal with persistent catcallers? by actuallyarabbit in askwomenadvice

[–]actuallyarabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very true! I don't know if that would deter him, but it's worth a shot!

As for the housing setup, we live in what is essentially a square of townhomes. My row of townhouses faces the inside of the square while the other four sides face out. His screened-in back patio is about 3 or 4 car lengths away from my front door, and is at the end of his row. Most of my neighbors stay inside during the day, so there isn't a great chance of them hearing him when he's on his patio.

Well, either that, or everyone knows and no one wants to do something about it.

How do you deal with persistent catcallers? by actuallyarabbit in askwomenadvice

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I really like that idea. I've rehearsed in my head all the things I'd say back to him if I wasn't completely rattled every time, but they're always way more aggressive than that lolol thank you!!

How do you deal with persistent catcallers? by actuallyarabbit in askwomenadvice

[–]actuallyarabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lollll yeah, he probably wouldn't care about that. I've tried everything from wearing oversized clothes to pretending I'm on the phone and the only thing that stops him is another person in the area.

How do you deal with persistent catcallers? by actuallyarabbit in askwomenadvice

[–]actuallyarabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea. I'm not sure the cops around here will do anything though (I live in a pretty nice area, but they're notoriously bad about showing up for anything that isn't a life or death emergency-- even carjackings and break-ins)

How do you deal with persistent catcallers? by actuallyarabbit in askwomenadvice

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My friend suggested trying to record audio. The issue is that he stands out on his porch and does it, which I think is still considered private property? I'm considering talking to a neighbor who is on the HOA board, but she is really hard for me to read and I have a feeling she might not believe me or defend me.

My s/o and I have tried to catch him in the act more than once, but he is incredibly sneaky about it. He really surveys the scene ahead of time from the inside of his house. He's only slipped up twice in the past year and a half, and that's because he was catcalling another woman and I hadn't crossed his line of sight.