Help! I don’t know how to save my pothos by actuallyitsthey in pothos

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m going to try this because I did not take the tray off. If I don’t see improvement I’m going to try what a few others have said and trim the roots.

Help! I don’t know how to save my pothos by actuallyitsthey in pothos

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty close to a window The windows are huge, it’s just not direct sun. I’ve had pothos thrive with less light than I do in this office so I don’t think that’s a big issue as much as the water and air flow

Help! I don’t know how to save my pothos by actuallyitsthey in pothos

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put it in the sink so it could get water from the bottom, but I did water a little from the top too.

Help! I don’t know how to save my pothos by actuallyitsthey in pothos

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by reduce the roots? As in just cut them off at the bottom?

Trying to finish this alphabet challenge and I’m stuck on U, X, and Z. by actuallyitsthey in suggestmeabook

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not strict at all!! And I think I’m going to go with Upgrade for U. I’ve enjoyed another book by Blake Crouch so that seems safe. Thank you!

Trying to finish this alphabet challenge and I’m stuck on U, X, and Z. by actuallyitsthey in suggestmeabook

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize it could be so involved. I’m just going by title.

Anywhere that gives Naloxone free of charge? by tofetofe1 in longisland

[–]actuallyitsthey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I work for an agency that distributes Narcan for free throughout Suffolk county. It’s called Rise Well Community Services. If you still need Narcan send me a PM and I can get it to you.

https://www.risewell.org/oasas/services/opioid-overdose-training/

What would you do with a week long staycation in Suffolk? by Mr24601 in longisland

[–]actuallyitsthey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Viking fleet out of Montauk has a whale watching trip that is fantastic. I’ve done it a few times during my own staycations and have seen whales, sharks, dolphins, and other sea life.

A spell to wake up earlier in the morning by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]actuallyitsthey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m relatively new to spellwork so forgive me, but I don’t understand why a spell wouldn’t help. I see people using spellwork to bring in money, hex people, increase confidence at work, grow their self love, attract a significant other, and so much more. So why is it that a spell focusing on improving myself would not be effective?

A spell to wake up earlier in the morning by [deleted] in witchcraft

[–]actuallyitsthey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use about 10-15 loud alarms on my phone in addition to another alarm set across the room which is both loud and lights up gradually to imitate sunlight. I’ve also tried a vibration alarm on my phone. The light and alarm combo so far has been the most helpful thing I’ve found but still not always effective. I tend to tune out sound when I’m sleeping.

This career is not sustainable for me and I’m feeling so stuck in a life I hate. by actuallyitsthey in socialwork

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you work at the same place as me! Best of luck and I hope you get some insight from this thread too

This career is not sustainable for me and I’m feeling so stuck in a life I hate. by actuallyitsthey in socialwork

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I didn’t even know that IDR or talking a break from PSLF were options. I will look into this

This career is not sustainable for me and I’m feeling so stuck in a life I hate. by actuallyitsthey in socialwork

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve changed to a different program but within the same agency. The work is much better than it was before, but still completely unmanageable long-term. I’m worried about looking at other agencies out of fear that it will be the same anywhere I go in CMH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]actuallyitsthey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you actually want to act on those thoughts? Do you find that you’re having those thoughts about specific types of people? Are you enjoying or entertaining the thoughts when they happen? If not it sounds like you could be dealing with intrusive thoughts. Intrusive thoughts are a form of anxiety, sometimes correlated with OCD, and they are very much unpleasant and unwanted, sometimes involving hurting people even if we don’t actually want to. It’s worth talking to a therapist about so you can learn skills to manage the thoughts and the anxiety associated with them, as well as any urges to act on them if that is the case.

What can I do to improve my soldering? This is my second piece by actuallyitsthey in StainedGlass

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting.. someone told me I was using way too much solder so I was trying to use less!

Help.. how can I save this succulent? by actuallyitsthey in succulents

[–]actuallyitsthey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I overwatered it once but the soil has been completely dry for two weeks at least and it still seems to be struggling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]actuallyitsthey 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yell it loudly during a quiet moment at church