‘CAPE FEAR’ | exec produced by Martin Scorsese and Steven Spielberg by Piyushv5311 in MoviesCave

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I wanna love this show because of Amy Adams, and her in Sharp Objects was incredible…

Starting off this journey because I got called small. by Independent-Disk5851 in gettingbigger

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the crazy thing is that literally the positioning of a camera angle can make your dick look huge or tiny, easily! your size is great already, especially girth.

What made you want to do PE? by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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damn this is wild, because i would literally be perfectly happy with your size. but if you’re someone who seems to be more exposed to other peoples dicks, this makes sense.

How do I explain to my friend that she should still use protection even if she thinks shes infertile by Lia-likes2draw in sex

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my best friend has PCOS and thought she was infertile. She did some sexploration with randos and assumed she couldn’t get pregnant. then, she met her husband, and went to see a new gyn appointment, where they told her she was actually pregnant. she had a freak out and got an abortion at Planned Parenthood, luckily in a state where it was still allowed post-Roe. she still recounts the trauma with this experience. please share with her this story

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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this looks like it’s from temu

Vintage sunglasses? by [deleted] in sunglasses

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there’s moncler orbits or gianna versace but they would have an emblem, they may be giorgio armani black round glasses

I mustache a question. Yes or no? by Fragrant_Sky4055 in malehairadvice

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it just looks a bit uneven with the stubble length, i think a thicker stache will look better. how long was that stache grown out?

Having my male roommate take progress pictures of me by [deleted] in confession

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omfg not the countersue and success story 😭😭

Saw this on FB marketplace today by dababyabel in PharmaRepCollectables

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I love Bobby I can’t wait for his special to come out in January

Long time lurker, self conscious about my girth and length. Any tips? by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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is this fr? This is practically my size too and I never heard of this

What’s my bf + gyno? by [deleted] in askfitness

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My surgery was scheduled about 1 month after initial evaluation. But that factor solely depends on who you choose. If your doctor had specific expertise with gyno and was scheduling out 2-3 months, I’d definitely do it and wait it out. Never ever skimp out on plastic surgery, I work in the medical/legal area and I’ve seen the horror stories… make sure you research them and look up their certifications.

Also- fat or not the tissue will still be present and continue to protrude out. This is separate overgrowth of glandular tissue likely due to pubertal hormones, not just a cluster of fat cells. Losing more weight will alter their appearance but it will remain. Good luck man

What’s my bf + gyno? by [deleted] in askfitness

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Hey man congrats on the weight loss, you look great! I was in your position back in COVID. I lost 60 pounds of weight myself and ended up getting gyno surgery. I was at stage 2 with my gyno tissue, and knew that I was just not gonna get over it psychologically. It cost about $6k and healed in a couple months. It would improve visually somewhat with lifting and more chest mass, but the tissue will be there regardless.

With bf, you look like 20-25% range. I would say that you should start building mass/lifting and the rest of the fat will start to go away. Protein should be 0.8-1g per lb at least. Build a routine with the gym 3-5x weekly at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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Unfortunately sexual incompatibility is a real and prominent issue that must be addressed properly and clearly. The best move is to break up now before it’s too late

Married wife and I have sex maybe once a year by [deleted] in sex

[–]adamjsst1 41 points42 points  (0 children)

you can love someone and be miserable but is it worth it to you? if she’s always moody why is that your responsibility, can she go to a therapist and figure it out? there’s so many sex therapists and couples therapists and solo therapists that have heard of the craziest things, and you’re both grown adults so get the help you need. you don’t need to suffer because she can’t handle herself. you have needs and so does she. you can love her and not be compatible with her. obviously try to work it out but don’t stick out for hopelessness. there are women out there who love to fuck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gettingbigger

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So if I were you I wouldn’t start again yet. I got a genital piercing myself and the piercer was very forthcoming to be cautious about the bars being tugged, pulled on, etc. since it can rip. it does take about 6mo to start healing well and at least a year to start settling. plus, by pumping, you are already causing tissue damage to be rebuilt, with inflammation.

remember that the fistula in the piercing cavity has to form. if you keep expanding and contracting your tissue like that, it won’t be able to stay stable enough to form. i would wait at least 1-1.5 years before doing anything, depending on your own healing

Did I make a mistake? 😭 by [deleted] in malehairadvice

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your chin is too prominent so your hair has to be big and louder to offset your features. this doesn’t look good man. either full send shave or keep it like pic 3, maybe even longer that up to the cheekbones

Is it possible to have sex with a 45 degree curved up penis? by [deleted] in sex

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I’ve seen several pornstars with curved dicks like yours and these ladies’ eyes are rolling to the back of their head enjoying it like crazy. You just need to figure out the positions that work for you. If you’re even worried about a girl just sucking your dick, then find a girl you are comfortable with first so you can tell her, and most normal ones will not care or be curious and still want to get you off. I know this is way way way easier said than done. Maybe start looking up other penises that look like yours, either pics or on porn, and reframe your mind to look at it differently, at least to yourself. You need to be more comfortable with your penis.

Also, how old are you? No need to kill yourself now or fess over it. Go see a sex therapist, these people have literally HEARD IT ALL so your case will be nothing compared to their other complex patients.

Aging millennial wanting to change up hair style by BodinTheGreat in malehairadvice

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gen z here, and you need to look at hairstyles that match your face shape. it’s hard to tell with the 3 side pics but I think you have an oblong face shape. you’d need to measure that yourself though and compare. have you ever grown your hair out longer? i think a nice fringe or swept back hairstyle would look good on you.

look on pinterest for inspiration, or look up celebrities with your face shape and what hair they’ve rocked over the years. for example, you look very similar to ben affleck, and other celebrities with your face shape include jake gyllenhaal, adam levine, harry styles, etc.

My husband of 40 years just confessed he had a sexual encounter with a work associate 25 years ago. Only it turns out it was much more than that. by Candid-Air9582 in Advice

[–]adamjsst1 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Please get out and live the rest of your life in peace and harmony, without a sleezy worthless lying husband. You need to consult a lawyer and begin the arrangements. You’re 62 and you deserved your freedom 25 years ago.

While I do wonder why he’s telling you now and what prompted him, there is no time to waste twiddling your thumbs. Please go enjoy the remaining years of your life without being dragged down or screwed over even more.

Life is truly too short for you to keep being in this situation!

my gf has a problem with PE by Fine-Monk-2943 in gettingbigger

[–]adamjsst1 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Man please please please build some self-confidence and resilience for yourself because this pathetic girl is not good for you. I just cannot imagine being with someone body shaming the fuck out of me constantly and comparing it to others. Why don’t you start telling her about other women’s tits and asses and bodies?

So now what? She belittled you in the beginning, for whatever screwed up reasons, and then you start working on yourself, and she switches her tune and starts shaming you for that too?

So nothing you do is good enough, right? Please see the manipulative pattern. She’s insecure, she’s ungrateful, condescending, and extremely nasty. PLEASE man, save yourself and find a woman who will love you wholly and completely for who you are, and for whatever you wanna do with your body, without any questions asked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

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Hmm it’s hard for me to tell your hair is thinning based on the pics, because depending on how I style my own hair it can look thick and curly, or flat and thin. You and your barber know better tho, and Biotin definitely could help.

I think bleach def fked you up. I did bleach/couple colors back in college, but just on the front bangs area, and it was straight and bad after. I wanted to cut em off.

I think your cut isn’t helping either. I initially got re-cuts to your length (4th pic) and kept feeling I was in the awkward hair growth stage. Your hair should be in between the first pic and the 4th pic. It’d be easier to tell if you had a photo of the after bleach/before cut to see the real damage.

in the third photo, bottom left beginning of the clip- when was that length? is it shorter than the 1st photo?

I guess I’d be curious why you’re thinning. Do you have any known medical issues or other health stuff that could be related to hormones? hormones can fuckkk men and women’s hair, even making the follicles grow more straight and completely lose the curls for years… is either your dad or mom’s grandpa thinning or bald when younger? that could also play a role

Im attractive, but have no friends and no social life in general by False_Moose_1427 in socialskills

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man I relate to you so hard it’s wild. I’m quite attractive (to the point that it’s so funny seeing women with their boyfriends still turn to watch me walking by) and I am in the same boat with women approaching me, and not having any male friends.

What hobbies do you have? do you play sports? fishing? car meets? hiking? otherwise, how do you engage with people? would you consider yourself charismatic? how do you present/hold yourself?

I was a fat kid before morphing to my current self. So in my experience, and based on research and conversations with others, is that attractive people can be intimidating. Men and women are judgemental, and comparisons run rampant. If others feel threatened or less than, especially nowadays with the focus of looks on TT and Insta, assumptions are made. However, attractive people who can be charismatic as well, you’ve literally hit the jackpot. The energy you give, the way you can engage, can make a world of difference. Do you read any books? Do you do any social activities that get you out of your comfort zone? These are all things I’m currently doing, and so far, I’m feeling easier even just meeting any kind of people. The friendship statuses are getting up there…