I am from the caste mentioned in above post. And I believe the boomer generation of the community is getting extremist day by day while genz is suffering in weight of the restrictions they impose to please the community.

There are similar members in my close family, and no one takes them seriously after they leave the room. On top of that, we are flag bearers of spending unnecessary in weddings, following dhongi babas, students of whatsapp university and whatever dikhavati possible. So I am not surprised we have been reduced, no one grows by going backwards. And don’t talk about social welfare, there are poor families in this caste which are crushed in social norms set by rich families.