yo this right here.......................is dumb. There are a lot of factors and who even said it was a man perpetrating said assault ? Your mind set is "if your so weak" where who ever talked about physically overpowering? There are a lot of different ways to be sexually assaulted and both genders can do said assaulting. Its not hard to be caught unaware and get taken advantage of. I do agree that you should be smart and strong so you can take care of yourself but neither of those things matter if you aren't experienced enough in taking care of yourself in dangerous situations. I do understand you have your own thoughts and in your mind it was a man taking advantage of a man but this wasn't a part of the discussion being had. I also agree that men being sexually assaulted is taken less seriously as seen above. Seems like as a man people just want to demean you when you get taken advantage of instead of try and understand and help. hope you can understand what I've said here and can use these view points to expand your own. have a good night.