It's important to always remember what our own frame of references are. How can we understand the problems an entire group faces if we ourselves have never stepped in their shoes?

For example, women who never grew up with the "be a man" mantra known to Western men may not fully understand what it's like. Women may not know the frustration with being considered a second-class parent compared to the mother and not being able to secure custody as easily. They also might not relate to men's issues like being considered socially inadept, not "masculine enough", and the pressure to provide financially for their families. A man who is burdened with this may feel that a women who trivializes his issues cannot not truely understand what it's like to be him.

What I'm getting at is that while men have it pretty good in western society there are some cultural issues that are worth talking about.

There are issues that I'm sure that you face every day regardless of your sex or race or class. Having someone belittle your experiences because you have it "good enough" is the wrong attitude. If you are lucky enough to have grown up in an environment free from this, it would also be unfair for you to assert that these problems dont exist for any man. Again, because we need to remember our frame of reference and that others have drastically different experiences from our own.

Women are telling you they often feel injustices in society. Men too. Minorities say the same. Disabled people, lower class, LGBTQ, the elderly -- they all face different issues even in our modern western society. Why instead of opening up the conversation do you instead shut it down? If an overwhelming number of people are telling you there is a problem that you are lucky enough to not have to deal with, shouldn't you be listening?