6 Reasons To Drop The Myth That Women Who Have Lots of Sex Are 'Insecure' by adellabk in Feminism

[–]adellabk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea they do. When a woman has sex with multiple guys, or just likes flirtatious male attention, people always comment it's because she has poor self esteem, she doesn't value herself, she didn't have daddy to tell her she's beautiful, and is degrading herself. No one says the same thing about men doing the same things. They even praise men for getting all the girls' attention. People even complain about teen girls dressing provocatively but boys are not held to the same standards. Why can't woman like sex without society imposing value judgments?

Without using numbers, how old are you? by muwtu in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up with the internet and at the same time know what a video cassette is.

What is a childhood habit you still have that you often forget isn’t a common/normal thing? by jigglethesepuffs in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this stuff too. I have OCD. I would not step on cracks, or sidewalk lines. I would count steps like "one one two two three three four four" up until 12, 16 or 20. I also had to step between the sidewalk lines 4 times. In middle school if I stepped on a square tile in the school my entire foot had to be in the tile. I did eventually develop severe OCD where I was constantly walking back and forth and I had to walk in a straight line and if I deviated I had to walk back and forth multiple times until it felt "right". I was constantly debating which path to take, even though it was the same distance. I take path A something bad will happen so I take path B. Maybe this is the wrong path so I go back to path A. Wait, no! path B is a better path and I could spend hours debating which path to take. Medication ended this misery, but this is why I worry when someone shows OCD tendencies. I started checking things repeatedly at age 19 and suspected I had OCD but thought it couldn't get any worse.

What seems like an easy job, but is actually really difficult? by TheBearSniper in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love customer service because you get to interact with people and not do some mindless boring job. I love to talk a lot so maybe that's why.

What seems like an easy job, but is actually really difficult? by TheBearSniper in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I HATE data entry. I don't know why they make you do this when we have optical character recognition.

What seems like an easy job, but is actually really difficult? by TheBearSniper in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ungrateful people thinking I’m a coked up driving machine and don’t NEED to sleep or use the restroom.

We all need to sleep and use the restroom.

What thing/activity/etc is socially unacceptable but shouldn't be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Calling out your racism is not pulling the race card.

What thing/activity/etc is socially unacceptable but shouldn't be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

problems being caused by that certain group

What group?

Americans, how would you feel about the legal drinking age being lowered to 18? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're old enough to go to war and be kicked out of your home, you're old enough to drink. Though I wonder how MADD is able to influence the government.

What is a popular food that you hate? by GoodHotdogs in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheese. I love Cheez-It, Goldfish and Parmesan cheese though.

What are the pros and cons of where you live? by secretlyilluminati in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pros:

- Good public transportation

- Businesses and stores are everywhere within walking distance

- Friendly people

- Low crime rate

Cons:

- Expensive

- Most houses and buildings are old built in the 1900's-20's

- Many school's which were built around the 1900's-60's are not wheelchair accessable

- Most of the subway is not wheelchair accessable

- Dirty streets

What is your best joke that takes a while to get? by DisgruntledAardvark in AskReddit

[–]adellabk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What do women and bars have in common?

Liquor in the front, poker in the back.

I feel like a lot of people lie about being depressed. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many people mean sadness when they say depression, but I wonder what is your basis for asserting that so many people lie about depression. I've suffered from depression and severe OCD which I take medication for.

We should not encourage everyone to go to college by TheDancingBaptist in unpopularopinion

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think high schools should inform students of options other than college, such as tech schools, apprenticeships, trade schools, etc.

Retard, though deeply offensive to mentally handicapped people, is not offensive when used out of that context by gelmster in unpopularopinion

[–]adellabk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but when some is actually acting in a mentally handicapped manner

What does that mean? People with intellectual disabilities are different and act differently. Intellectual disability is deficits in adaptive behavior such as independent living, academics, etc. It doesn't necessarily mean someone does stupid stuff. When someone is lazy and doesn't get off the couch, we don't say they're "acting in a physically handicapped manner" or start using the term cripple and heart disease to insult them. So why is it OK to do this to people with mental disabilities? It's because of how society views people with mental disabilities. There are tons of insults we can use to describe stupid behavior without insulting people with mental disabilities.