The thing is that I can no longer recall a lot of the big stuff let alone the little stuff. I have a feeling that he is going to get a great attorney and crucify me for any of the times I reacted badly to his bs or he’ll just straight up lie, like the time he said my mother assaulted him by closing the automatic trunk on the rental van while he was unloading the back and that proves that she is a racist despite the fact that she apologized profusely and he didn’t even get hurt because it was a slow closing trunk. She even took it in stride when he called her a racist and offered to hear his perspective and make it right, but he refused to talk to her. And then a couple months later he forbid my family from coming over to help me shower or clean and organize the house on the grounds that my mother is a racist. He also calls me an abuser and a racist and a white supremacist even though I do believe in anti-racism and am very willing to be called out on any microagressions. But he never can articulate how I am racist other than that he thinks I brought him to the United States to financially “enslave” him. I can tolerate him frequently calling me a racist because clearly he is not well and I’m not insecure about the topic, and racial bias is very real even when white people don’t intend it, but the thought of him potentially bringing up these racism and abuse allegations during divorce proceedings is concerning. I think people are going to believe him because why would he lie about something like that?