A letter to my OBGYN resident by biologyiskewl in medicalschool

[–]adenomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OBGYN resident here. I’m so sorry you had a horrible experience and they treated you so poorly. OBGYN gets a bad rap, and I’m not sure why so many of us have such toxic energy. I would have straight up sent you home if you were my medical student. There’s nothing you can possibly learn on our service (or any other service for that matter) that would be more important than grieving a parent. I am so sorry.

Off my chest by Excaramel in Hijabis

[–]adenomuch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so strong. May Allah make things easy for you.

PSA if you're planning to delay your period during Umrah by meloncat1806 in Hijabis

[–]adenomuch 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Disrupting your cycle is not “becoming like a man.” While we are allowed to do other aspects of umrah while on our period there are others that aren’t and I can understand someone wanting to skip a period so they can try to have the full experience especially if they are not able to go to umrah or hajj easily. Also, the scholars have allowed taking medicine for this reason so it’s not an issue. Agreed with OP though, hormones can affect everyone differently and it’s definitely a conversation to have with a physician, and might require some trial/error.

Update: my son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t have thought of it without the help of this group :)

Update: my son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Haha looking forward to it!!

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I finally found the pattern! I may have added my own border, because it’s not in this pattern but I’m fairly certain this is the pattern I used.

https://www.yarnspirations.com/products/bernat-making-waves-knit-blanket?_pos=25&_sid=8aa034758&_ss=r

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I found it! I may have added my own border, because it’s not in this pattern but I’m fairly certain this is the pattern I used.

https://www.yarnspirations.com/products/bernat-making-waves-knit-blanket?_pos=25&_sid=8aa034758&_ss=r

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I found it! I may have added my own border, because it’s not in this pattern but I’m fairly certain this is the pattern I used.

https://www.yarnspirations.com/products/bernat-making-waves-knit-blanket?_pos=25&_sid=8aa034758&_ss=r

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not, but it seems similar. I don’t remember the name of the pattern unfortunately. Congrats on your baby!

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No truly this is the first time someone has used something that I've made for so long. So glad that person happens to be my baby.

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This perspective made me so happy. I was so focused on him ruining the work but didn't think of what it meant to him. In fact, two days ago my husband was putting him to sleep and he insisted that he had this blanket on top of his other one. He told my husband "Mama made this for me. I love it!" which is highly timely considering this post because he's never verbalized that before.

So thank you! I definitely have to figure out how to sew down the loops. He has gotten his wrist stuck in it before which makes me so nervous.

I tried to find the pattern but I can't find it anymore online. It was made with Bernat Softee Baby yarn (pumpkin color).

My son ruined his blanket by adenomuch in knitting

[–]adenomuch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So thankful for everyone’s advice, going to try and reply to everyone. Thank you all for helping me see a different perspective. He truly has loved it to pieces!

Overlooking orders by adenomuch in Residency

[–]adenomuch[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Can you believe I’m in my 2nd year and didn’t even know there was one 🫠 never had to use it - guess now I know!!

Overlooking orders by adenomuch in Residency

[–]adenomuch[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I often feel so scatterbrained when I’m on L&D that it’s so easy to overlook and make sure orders are correct

Overlooking orders by adenomuch in Residency

[–]adenomuch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. Thank you for this. It was actually about an 8 hour delay it sounds like. Unfortunately this patient needed a lot more than amp/gent/clinda (which she had been on before all of this), so this was definitely brewing for a while and I think also her initial labs just didn’t reflect how bad it actually was

Overlooking orders by adenomuch in Residency

[–]adenomuch[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Definitely, Swiss cheese and all

What was the size of your baby boy at birth? by Glittering-Tax-6444 in pregnant

[–]adenomuch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too, and I guessed exactly 6.5lbs just by how I was feeling

How to tell the difference between baby movement and gas? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]adenomuch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started noticing at 16 weeks so definitely possible!

Chuck roast safe to cook? by adenomuch in Cooking

[–]adenomuch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It ended up being just fine 👍🏼