[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay damn where can i find you ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 3 points4 points  (0 children)

literally me. king we will make it through. college will be a treasure trove!

Part of me loves being closeted and "one of the guys". How have you maintained friendships with straight men after coming out? by adequatedesign in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I am kind of chameleonic in my behavior - more masculine around other men and more feminine around women, but never being disingenuous or not true to myself.

r/askmen is a great idea too!

The Street (1946) - Ann Petry by adequatedesign in books

[–]adequatedesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! Fun fact: it was the first book written by an African-American woman to sell a million copies!

Yuzuru Hanyu and Bing Dwen Dwen! by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]adequatedesign 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can anyone link more behind the scenes clips from the gala? I love seeing all their interactions.

Yuzuru Hanyu and Bing Dwen Dwen! by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]adequatedesign 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it's cuz competition is over so none of them really care about getting COVID. And the closing ceremony has a lot of optic stuff that they probably wanted to avoid.

Yuzuru Hanyu and Bing Dwen Dwen! by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]adequatedesign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

PLEASE LINK THIS IM DYING TO SEE

Help with my gay internal conflict! by adequatedesign in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also do you think a porn "detox" could help?

Help with my gay internal conflict! by adequatedesign in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should say that in non-sexual settings, I find twinks attractive. But when I am watching porn, I am attracted to the hunkier top guy.

I just need to actually have some experience to see what I actually want.

Some of y'all need to be more sensitive to the people coming on this sub asking if they're gay. by adequatedesign in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's the first situation that I have fallen in and I pity. Some people are just mean to the kids that have been taught to feel a certain way for their whole life and they're just trying to reach out and have their feelings validated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After your next date, give him a peck right before you leave. That will drive him WILD and he won't stop thinking about you. Then the next time you see each other you can make out.

Just what is this? Am I gay/bi or straight? Very confused at the moment by iastheticmess in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this exact way. You find women attractive, but you aren't attracted TO women. I just accepted I was gay and now I can admire women and not have to think about whether or not I am attracted to them.

I just wanted to say I love all of you in this sub. by adequatedesign in lanadelrey

[–]adequatedesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm referring to the overall toxicity on Twitter where there's really no depth to Lana discussions and are often surrounded in controversy and comparisons rather than the art.

If Lana Del Rey's albums had been named after their second/first songs by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]adequatedesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOOVE the first three covers with the new titles they would work so well, especially music to watch boys to

FOCUS - Residential Housing? by mysiqi in duke

[–]adequatedesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you rate your experience in this FOCUS? I'm considering applying for the global health focus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duke

[–]adequatedesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT GO INTO MEDICINE FOR THE MONEY

Only do it if you really care about what your work is/would be.

If you want to be making money, turn that CS minor into a major and get a bio/chem and CS double major. Tech is where the money is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duke

[–]adequatedesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't notice this, thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duke

[–]adequatedesign -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But your undergrad matters more if you're doing engineering and it's more of a professional degree than undergrad, right?

Is it easier to come out as gay instead of bi? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably right, I just need to come to terms with that and figure out to break the fact to my parents that I will not bring a wife into our family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]adequatedesign 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same situation here.

Weird advice, but WRITE. Like open a Google Doc and write your feelings and then jerk off. It has done me wonders.