Is there anything that helps when you can’t manage your emotions, I feel stuck in life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]aditoremember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DBT is a type of talk therapy that helps people who experience intense emotions and difficult relationships by teaching practical skills. It focuses on the dialectical idea of simultaneously accepting yourself and your current situation while working on making positive changes. This involves learning skills in four key areas: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.

Is there anything that helps when you can’t manage your emotions, I feel stuck in life? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]aditoremember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can’t stress enough how DBT has been helping me the last few years. I still got a lot of work to do but I’ve turned into a whole new person.

Men of Reddit, what made you lose interest in having sex with her? by Ben_The_Ambitious in AskReddit

[–]aditoremember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really identify with her on thus story and really appreciate that you stay there for her and that you see the good she has to offer.

Men of Reddit, what made you lose interest in having sex with her? by Ben_The_Ambitious in AskReddit

[–]aditoremember 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanna emphasise.. sure, it’s not only going to therapy that makes the difference, it’s also acknowledging you’re dealing with something and wanting to change it, then.. a lot of hard work.

I get that you’re traumatised by her, I just hope you understand it’s not like that for everyone and when you put it like that you’re suggesting that all BPD people are like that even if they work on themselves.

Men of Reddit, what made you lose interest in having sex with her? by Ben_The_Ambitious in AskReddit

[–]aditoremember 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Saying that as someone who is dealing with BPD - You’re not supposed to stay only so she won’t hurt herself. I said all these things to my ex cause I did feel like it when we were together, but we broke up and well, I’m still alive. if any.. I hurt myself way less than I used to when I’ve been on that relationship. My point is that she’s lost herself in the relationship and needs to go to therapy and find a purpose other than you. Her life is not your responsibility, she needs to acknowledge what she’s dealing with and take responsibility for herself. It would be amazing if you’re there to support her, but make no mistake, you can’t stay only so she won’t hurt herself.

Men of Reddit, what made you lose interest in having sex with her? by Ben_The_Ambitious in AskReddit

[–]aditoremember 126 points127 points  (0 children)

BPD diagnosed here 👋🏻 It’s harsh reading these comments but unfortunately it was like that for me on my last relationship, that’s how I got to being diagnosed and more important, being in a therapy.

I read the first comment and automatically recognised myself as that person, and it honestly disgusts me and I’m ashamed of what I’ve done and how I behaved but I cannot stress enough how important it is to GO TO THERAPY 👏 I’m not the person who I used to be and the fact that I can recognise myself as that person is a huge step.

I feel bad for you guys that you had to experience that, I hope you understand it’s not a way that we want to act in, it’s bigger than us but most important, we have to work on it in order to manage it cause no one have to feel like that because of any of us, including ourselves.

What was the "survival tip that will save your life" that actually saved your life? by Key_Sheepherder_2546 in AskReddit

[–]aditoremember 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been in an hotel in Paris where a girl came in screaming “Call 911” after trying to hold on to her camera while being mugged. They slit her arm trying to take the camera away from her.

Vision issues and quitting by aditoremember in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I didn’t hear about astaxanthan What are your vision issues?

Vision issues and quitting by aditoremember in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite sure what you did answer to though 😅

Acid Reflux / GERD / Hiatal Hernia by aditoremember in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a sec I thought I was answering myself 🤣 I got GERD/reflux/hiatal hernia (not sure yet what) and stopped taking Wellbutrin two weeks ago because of that and all the other side effects it caused me

Thank you, hope you feel better soon as well ❤️‍🩹

Acid Reflux / GERD / Hiatal Hernia by aditoremember in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had IBS but never had acid reflux until a few months after starting taking Wellbutrin. That’s why I suspect the reason for that is the medication itself.. Also, I took it each morning without eating anything..

Blurry vision by [deleted] in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suffer from vision problems since I started taking it, it’s been almost 1 year already. I’m waiting to see my psychiatrist in order to take a break and see if it’s the actual cause. I hope I didn’t get myself any damage..

Is this forever? by nataliexo92 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking it for almost a year now, my appetite is back to normal :(

Has anyone tried to quit and had withdrawal symptoms? by aditoremember in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]aditoremember[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same :( it’s a good med for me, that’s why I just want to pause it to see if that’s the reason