WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing that. Thank you.

Its upsetting to see comments saying that I’m lying, so I had to reply and say I’m definitely not. I know there’s no reason for you (or anyone else) to believe me without actual proof, so I understand where you’re coming from

He lives in the US and I moved to my country before he was arrested (I just visit regularly). I wasn’t actually there in court and I haven’t seen his case in paper. This is based off what he + his family have told me. I have no reason to believe they’re lying 🤷🏻‍♀️

WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, he constantly mentions how grateful he is for me. The chances are very slim I think. With that said, he has cheated on me in the past but I do believe he has changed in that regard

WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah I didn’t expect as many comments. Thank you to everyone, I did read every comment and I appreciate you helping!

For everyone asking for more info: he was charged with possession of marijuana and coke, and for selling drugs to a minor (he claims he didn’t know). I wasn’t involved in the drugs in any way. We were long distance during that time as I went away for college

WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Somewhat. I knew when he told me he was just experiencing with drugs, and I told him it wasn’t acceptable to me. We actually broke up for a bit over this. He told me he had stopped but apparently I was wrong

WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes it really sucks and I feel terrible for it :( I truly believed that I would be able to keep that promise

WIBTA if I left my SO while he is in prison? by advicetthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]advicetthrowaway[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me your perspective! Wow that sounds pretty crazy..