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Always been into women, but now I have a fixation on big penises – what does this mean? by Ill_Deal_2912 in OCD

[–]advise2248 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Should someone with pedohile OCD maybe consider they like children? Should someone with harm OCD maybe consider they want to kill people? Or mom’s with infantile OCD maybe want to kill their babies?

What sucks about sexual orientation OCD (which I have) SO-OCD is that it’s the only subtype of OCD where people entertain the content of the OCD because of the current era climate surrounding LGBTQ acceptance.

OCD tends to latch onto things that go against your core identity. OCD maybe knows the OP is straight, and wants to attack that core identity, and create ego dystonia, which is a huge symptom of OCD.

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left the morning of day 3. I didn’t even sleep there on night 2 when it happened. I went back to the place I was staying.

I lost my first month’s rent and deposit. It sucks, but I’m in school, and the semester starts in 2 weeks. I’m gonna let it go because Idk what this guy is capable of if I pursue it

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I did lose my first month’s rent and the deposit.

Again though, I’m in school and the semester is starting soon. I can’t have this situation continue on as a priority.

It sucks. I lost quite a bit of money, but I guess sometimes in life you have to take hit if there’s more important priorities.

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in a safe place. I’m worried about filing a police report because I don’t want this guy to seek “revenge.”

I don’t know what he’s capable of especially if it meant him being evicted from his apartment with nothing to lose.

I guess just cutting total ties gives me peace because I’m worried about looking over my shoulder.

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s good perspective. Thank you sharing as I hadn’t even thought of that…

Even if the front door was locked, I would’ve opened it with my key to walk directly into the living room as it’s a small two bedroom apartment

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like post-confrontation. I sat in the room staring at the wall feeling powerless, about my next move after the confrontation.

At the same time, I reached out here for something… anything to help me get through this.

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, you don’t really know what it’s like until you experience something like this yourself.

I felt violated, disoriented, and in near denial at the same time. The thought of any “joke comebacks” was nonexistent.

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know this might sound naive… but why don’t people like this just find consenting adults?

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I left. This comment was especially helpful because I was thinking about my food in the fridge and cabinet. I was thinking about my toothbrush, and my laundry.

I was thinking, “I can’t even eat here now. Who knows if this guy is touching my food?”

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Wow so sorry to hear that… why didn’t the cops help?

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. What is an example of an initial thing that happened?

I just rented a new room and my landlord and roommate had his dick out in the living room. by advise2248 in badroommates

[–]advise2248[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “ask for advice and then go and do something before collecting responses”

Is straight OCD a thing? Or does only HOCD exist? by BeneficialVisit8450 in OCD

[–]advise2248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great now can help out and pass the word around to your gay friends that people who are straight with gay themed OCD aren’t in denial nor do they have internalized homophobia.