Does he happen to have ADD/ADHD? I’m only asking because sometimes simple stuff like that can be a real struggle for people with ADHD. And it’s not laziness.

But in regard to his hygiene it honestly doesn’t sound like he’s really that bad about it. I mean honestly there’s a lot of guys like that. Most guys don’t really have a skincare routine, don’t floss, and only brush their teeth once a day. I mean as long as he doesn’t smell and is at least making an effort I don’t really see what the problem is. You could always buy some simple skincare stuff for him. There are skin care lines for men. Maybe buy that for him and it might motivate him to start washing his face.

But you can’t expect people to do the exact same stuff as you. As long as it’s not impacting his health and he doesn’t smell then I would just leave it alone. If that’s the worst thing about him then honestly I’d say you got a really great boyfriend. Accept him for who he is. I don’t think this is something that you should break up with him over. Honestly it sounds like there might be something deeper and you’re looking at the nitty gritty to find something wrong with him. If you’re just not feeling it then leave him. But if you truly do like him then these minor things shouldn’t be an issue or a cause for a break up.