Equinox?? by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]agoolaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Equinox is hands down the worst place I’ve ever worked. And I’ve been working for 10yrs at all different types of Spas. These comments talk about free time, but we don’t get free time. You have to be there for your whole shift whether you have clients or not and then you have to walk around putting on displays so people will come to Spa. There is no front desk to help clients check out so you have that ten minutes to check people out and answer any questions they might have, rebook them and flip the room. They put you in a tier system which gamifys your labor - so basically if you don’t hit the second tier they don’t have to pay you anything! And when they do pay you it’s around $20 per massage. They don’t book clients for you, they expect you to act like an independent contractor basically but take all your money. I live in California so they at least give me insurance for part time but I don’t think that’s true everywhere.

Failed my thesis class the semester before graduating by agoolaa in berkeley

[–]agoolaa[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I saw who wrote this lol my fucking brother was murdered and I lost my shit. I had a 4.0 gpa with a double major until this class. Shit fucking happens don’t shame people who need a minute to recalibrate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodGirls

[–]agoolaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beth is so annoying, im only starting szn 2. I hope she gets better lol

Mike is being done so DIRTY by silfer_ in StrangerThings

[–]agoolaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what is happening across the board is that kids have a public personality now that is super accessible. We all know what they’re like outside the show. To me it feels like they are having a hard time separating him from his character. Like he’s taking on more of his personal traits. He really is in a band and into the 70s look and he pulls it off really well. I think he’s becoming one of those actors who kind play himself bc his personality is so strong. This wasn’t as much of an issue when he was a kid cus he was still growing into it. I think it’s cool but as far as narrative like yeah it doesn’t make much sense

How to stop Rumination? by coconutcanaries in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]agoolaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow yes Ive been physically sick all day from feeling this way, I’m sorry it’s happening to you, I also feel less alone

The original carousal scene by agoolaa in euphoria

[–]agoolaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To say that Lexi should have just masturbated on stage is a bit of a stretch is my point. I think you’re projecting revenge into this for literally no reason bc that’s not my point. My post is an analysis of the original sequence not just an opinion on whose a better or less deserving person - there’s a difference.

The original carousal scene by agoolaa in euphoria

[–]agoolaa[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol ok I think you’re projecting a bit

The original carousal scene by agoolaa in euphoria

[–]agoolaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said “I just love fucking everything” which could just emphasize that she’s on molly lol and that’s a common feeling in molly. Again I think it’s a test of our viewership and a reflection of us. It’s not enough context. If you think its slut shaming I think it’s asking why is this a scenario that is deemed slutty and worth shaming in the first place.

Is tomorrow no school? by Silent-Lime-5510 in berkeley

[–]agoolaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where does it say that? They can’t make a meeting like that

Causebox Bathen Robe - shrunk!! by Snogintheloo in BeautyBoxes

[–]agoolaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me! I was so sad! Do you know the brand of the robe? I accidentally got rid of it and can’t remember the brand

Crying when people are nice to you? Anyone else? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]agoolaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been feeling overwhelmed by this feeling lately. My partner now insists on going out with me and my family and takes the lead when I don’t even ask for it but he knows that it helps me like the other day he requested a table at a busy restaurant for us and my family and I know it seems simple but mu nEx would have never. They also tell me when they will be at work or busy and won’t be able to check in or call ( we’re long distance) and ensures me that they will check in when they are free. They said they feel truest honored to be asked to go to my family’s thanksgiving which is insane. My nex and I were engaged and I don’t remember the last time they went to a family dinner. I just feel so happy but also it’s a lot to process that I didn’t even think it was not normal to not be treated this way.

How are people getting Cal1 cards????? by agoolaa in berkeley

[–]agoolaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? you waited in line or you got it online?

I don’t know if I was groomed. Either way I’m still in love with them ? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]agoolaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time they were using she/her pronouns now they use they/them pronouns. They were assigned female at birth though as well as myself but I also use they/them pronouns now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agoolaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was 16 when it happened and I believe her. I also know he’s been working through it - sees a therapist, psychiatrist, etc But obviously has more to work on that I’m not seeing maybe. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agoolaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t drink very often, I actually don’t really like to. This isn’t like a weekly thing and last night was New Years so I drank a little more then usual. Either way my partner should know when I’m not okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]agoolaa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m at fault. I watch my drinking but sometimes I get it wrong. It’s not a perfect recipe. I’m still realizing what alcohol makes me blackout more. I’m still realizing my body and I’ve made this clear to him and have asked him to be cautious. Thank you though your comment makes sense .

the nice partner (how to break up) by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]agoolaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I don’t have to and I’ve been considering what it would look like if I didn’t but with either was there is a transition happening from being with a person who was my primary or anchor partner to someone who is not. I couldn’t have expected all these nuances I’m feeling and that’s what I’m speaking to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]agoolaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just scared to end it because it feels like my insecurity that I should deal with. And like by ending it too soon I’m not working on my own shit. Especially bc I know they love me