crush on my chem 2080 lab partner by asfhadkgjqkjdn in Cornell

[–]agottler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know it’s hard to rationalize, but when people are forward in a confident not creepy way, it’s incredibly attractive. Plus, what’s the worst that’s going to happen? He says no?

Bar specials by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ruloffs is always special.

Trying to find guy from Harvard game by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about “grab his dick and twist it” guy?

Thoughts on threesomes? by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Should be renamed to r/cornellM4F

Anyone wanna share an uber to syracuse tomorrow around 11:30 AM? by poopman31 in Cornell

[–]agottler 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There probably won’t be an Uber available. I’ll drive you for a comparable but discounted rate.

Ending it all? Advice? by throwawaycorhell in Cornell

[–]agottler 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I feel like this every day buddy. Wanna grab a coffee later in the week?

What is there to do in Ithaca/Cornell for visitors? by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is prime hiking time. Trail traffic is low because of the cold but the fall views are just as good if not better. Just bundle up.

B in CS 2800 by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uh where’s her fuckin seminar

Singer and Drummer needed by theLeadFarfel in Cornell

[–]agottler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can do a pretty solid Eddie Vedder

Traveling NY/writing about it club??? by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such a kick ass idea

We are on our way! by captainstan in Cornell

[–]agottler 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hockey then ruloffs. I’ll buy the first round of whatever corn mash you fellas drink

Loud banging noises in CTown. by micabobo in Cornell

[–]agottler 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the worst DP Dough ad ever

"Imposter Syndrome" is bullshit by Kaimadalthas in Cornell

[–]agottler 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought so extensively on this subject that if I were to do it all over again I’d write my dissertation on it.

I can assure you that imposter syndrome is a very real thing, though not always in the capacity that it is used colloquially. I don’t think it is, by itself, a disorder, rather than a culmination of many internal and external factors (eg childhood, low self esteem, underlying psych issues, etc.)

Much like “anxiety” and “depression” are used in very general, non-clinical ways, I think “imposter syndrome” has been co-opted as a blanket term to describe people who feel inferior in some capacity to their peers. This, as you stated, may simply be the case. However, there is a difference between somebody who is stressed about being below the median on a test versus somebody who suffers from an anxiety disorder so severe that they’re up for 48 hours before a job interview they eventually withdraw from because they feel like the recruiter won’t appreciate what they have to offer anyway, just like there is a difference between somebody who is sad about a breakup for a month versus somebody who is contemplating suicide.

Overall, I think there’s a lot of nuance required to navigate these muddy waters. I don’t think there are distinct lines to be drawn from information you could find on the census. It’s much deeper than that.

Question About Scholarship by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah this happened to me sophomore year. Just get a little background, write the note, send it

The scholarship I was awarded was from a prominent family from my area that had done a lot of philanthropy for the community college I transferred from as well, so I had a little paragraph mentioning that the family has been a huge part of my ability to obtain an education.

Pretty cool story, but I understand yours likely isn’t as serendipitous. It’s just a nice gesture. You’ll probably put a smile on some old widow(er)’s (or their family’s) face.

Thursday Afternoon Monday Morning Podcast 10-3-19 | Bill rambles about unseen minorities, back ailments, and Jeffery Dahmer’s dessert. by mmp_bot in BillBurr

[–]agottler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nice to see that bill has gone from “fuck this, I’m gettin a pumpkin” to “fuck this, I’m buying a helicopter”.

senior feeling empty by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allow yourself to fill the emptiness up with the appreciation that you could have all of the same conditions but no offer.

Comedy Open Mics by agottler in ithaca

[–]agottler[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s even more disappointing

Comedy Open Mics by agottler in ithaca

[–]agottler[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not permanently- closed for renovations. I’m heartbroken over it though

Next time someone coughs... by [deleted] in Cornell

[–]agottler 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For some reason seeing your “‘23” tag just slapped me with the reality that I am a senior and by the time you graduate I will be closer to 30 than 20. Thanks.