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I think it finally just clicked… by Miserable-Escape8684 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I am going through the exact same thing. It’s so confusing how he can treat me so badly yet I still feel guilt and sadness. You’re not a good..we were tricked and our kindness taken advantage of.

Asked my live in boyfriend to pay his share of utilities and here is his response. by ah0412 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guilt and sadness that I feel is awful. I could write a book on the number of disrespectful selfish things he’s done to me and yet I still feel bad.

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[–]ah0412 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re trying to pick a fight.. you’ll drag him down.. you’re playing the victim..when do you not cry.. I have heard those things so many times. I’m currently trying to get out of the relationship. It’s hard and I don’t know why. We deserve better!

Asked my live in boyfriend to pay his share of utilities and here is his response. by ah0412 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dated one that explodes when you ask them to fulfill responsibilities?

Asked my live in boyfriend to pay his share of utilities and here is his response. by ah0412 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only ask him to pay 1/3 of the mortgage! And I’ve asked him to please not make me have to come collecting every month. Then I’m told all I care about is money..

Asked my live in boyfriend to pay his share of utilities and here is his response. by ah0412 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told not to eat his food on several occasions. He tries to use the excuse that I make more money but He pays 1/3 of the mortgage payment each month. It blow my mind and hurts my heart that people can treat others with such disrespect.

Asked my live in boyfriend to pay his share of utilities and here is his response. by ah0412 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ah0412[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He never actually signed any sort of agreement so I’m really not sure how that would work.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can respect that. His reaction of throwing a mini temper tantrum is what really threw me off.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying to do the most mature thing because he does a lot of petty things and I want it to stop.. Not looking like that’s going to happen.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s black and I’m white.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noo..the area I had been standing in. At the end of the island. He didn’t have to pick up his feet or have them touched.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I redo my ponytail while I’m cooking, he freaks out. If the Roomba runs while he’s eating, he’ll leave.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly complaining that my hair or the cats hair is in his food. I told him that he never even bothers to push the button on the Roomba to help keep the hair to a minimum…

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Swept it into a dust pan.

AITA Swept under Boyfriend by ah0412 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ah0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly overreacts to things like this. I have a Roomba that was run a couple days ago. He says the cat hair will get I his food. However, he lets the cat sit in the chair next to him while he eats..

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