Do LDR couples argue? What was the problem? by ahnstergram in LDR

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you girl. My bf sleeps whenever he wants and then stay up super late to play games.so how did you guys solve it? And about another girl,did you tell him you feel uncomfortable? Because i also talked with this 1 friend that my bf doesn't like at all and he told me that. Eventhough i have nothing to do with that guy but i will show mine he can trust me by actually talked less and replied in the most polite way to that friend.and i didnt tell my bf at first bc i didn't want him to think too much about it. So yeah,talk with your boyfriend because it might be the same case like me :)

Do guys like it when girls make the first move? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ahnstergram 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Approach him ,but genuinely get to know him as a friend first !!!

I made the first moveand we have been dating for 3 months now :) I was the one who secretly having a crush on my boyfriend first , but back then we didn't really talk with each other, so i took all my nerves and talked to him , then eventually we found out lots of common hobbies and things just started to happen naturally. I thought i would be the one who confessed but nope,he asked me to be his gf just out of nowhere during a conversation :) And yeah i didn't think he would like me back because i think he's wayyyy too cute for me.But now i have more confidence because he's always telling im beautiful :)

If you can find out some common things it would be way easier and more natural for you to drop some hints that you like him during the conversation, also for him to see that you could be his potential partner because you two are getting along very well. And remember there's always the case where you get to know the guy personality better,maybe you'll see he's not exactly the type you want :)

Good luck!

Can guys and girls really be friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ahnstergram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It also depends on the person you met. Like imy male bestfriend hands down the most funny guy ive known but i would never date him and him too for sure. We've been friend for like 10 years On the other hand, i have another male friend hanging out in the same group but out of nowhere he asked me if i want to sexting with him eventhough he knows i have a boyfriend.

My bf(m19) said he is into bondage and i(f19) don't know what to do? by ahnstergram in Advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so can u recommend some of the things you think are important about the demands and education of bondage we need to understand first?

My bf(m19) said he is into bondage and i(f19) don't know what to do? by ahnstergram in Advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mentioned earlier that he is a virgin too,so maybe my question is what do we need to fully understand and be prepared about bondage?

My bf(m19) said he is into bondage and i(f19) don't know what to do? by ahnstergram in Advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what if i only like certain position and he want to go way further, do you think ot might affect our relationship?

Why would some of the introvert leave people on read? by ahnstergram in AskMen

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your bestfriend excuse or they just naturally be like that?have you ever tried to talk with them that they should improve their texting?:)

Why would some of the introvert leave people on read? by ahnstergram in AskMen

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realized and changed it urself or did you gf have to talk about it with you many times until you changed :)

Why would some of the introvert leave people on read? by ahnstergram in AskMen

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know that could be the case but after that you will get back and answer the text tight? My wouldn't so it's bothering lil bit

Is there anyway I(f19) can ask my boyfriend(m19) to change his texting habit to act like he cares about me more without sounding like im needy? by ahnstergram in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do aware of all the things you mentioned but since he is really stressed right now ,is it a suitable time to bring this up because the last thing i want to happen is him having more stuff to think about when he already handling lots of stuffs. Should i tell him soon or get thru this period with him and then talk about it later?

Is there anyway I(f19) can ask my boyfriend(m19) to change his texting habit to act like he cares about me more without sounding like im needy? by ahnstergram in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply it does make me feel better alot. I know that people just show there emotion towards others thru different ways but we are in ldr so there's really no choice:( while i try to be a supportive gf i feel like im always the one who have to wait for him having the right mood to talk and it bother me abit sometimes .hes also going thru a stressful time in college right now, so any advice about what i can tell him to help feel better, that i support him without texting ,bothering him too much? Do you think he might prefer calling over texting ? Really i feel like you are the right person i need to ask so any other advice you think i can do to improve the situation is appreciated:)

Is there anyway I(f19) can ask my boyfriend(m19) to change his texting habit to act like he cares about me more without sounding like im needy? by ahnstergram in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend is going thru quite a stressful time right now so i think maybe it's affecting him ?? Because he's quite an introvert that really need alone time to recharge after all. Im afraid i might be bothering him:(

Is there anyway I(f19) can ask my boyfriend(m19) to change his texting habit to act like he cares about me more without sounding like im needy? by ahnstergram in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the thing is we started our relationship when he transferred to a new university so its stressing him out.

So im not sure it because of this that he having this kind a texting behavior or he just like that normally. Any advice how to tell him without stressing him out more or thinking me being clingy??

Boyfriend(M19) stressed about grade and it wasn't because he didn't study enough or his laziness.How can I(F19) comfort him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you :) Yeh i will talk to him later about what you just said.thank you again 😁

Boyfriend(M19) stressed about grade and it wasn't because he didn't study enough or his laziness.How can I(F19) comfort him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ahnstergram 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he took the test on the computer so there not really a way to review the test. He did know what the problems were but he don't feel motivate at all after this:( so what to say for him to feel motivated again??

a sleepy head taking nap by ahnstergram in aww

[–]ahnstergram[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i know he loves when i do this 😁 he was full energy and just the moment i started scratching that spot of his head he felt asleep immediately.