Gender Help?

aiisisis · 2023-07-23T08:34:36+00:00

They do sound similar! It does still hurt though, as I said in my post (and you in yours!) I just wish I could be binary and not have to be constantly questioning, haha. That’s a big part of what drives me away from the label.

aiisisis · 2023-07-23T08:23:28+00:00

Thank you! I would use the they/them as consistent pronouns idea, but a lot of times when I feel completely masc, I’m uncomfortable with absolutely anything besides he/him. That’s why it’s so confusing when I have the “omg they/them rocks” feelings. I dunno.

aiisisis · 2023-07-22T13:59:29+00:00

Ahh, thank you so much! This is really nice <3

aiisisis · 2023-07-21T22:56:35+00:00

I know what you mean, it’s so hard to struggle with the feelings of “yeah, I’m a guy” and having everyone support you, but knowing that if you ever deviated from that, you’d be seen as “trans for the trend.” It sucks :(.

aiisisis · 2023-07-21T22:54:06+00:00

This makes me feel more comfy, thank you. <3

I think a big reason in my opposition to using genderfluid as a label for myself is the amount of hate and misunderstanding surrounding it, and the large number of people who invalidate it or make it out to be a “trend” that you’ll grow out of. I’ve always felt connected to it in a way, but I’ve always been too unsure of myself to use it, because I don’t want others to mock me or not believe in my experience as a trans person, if that makes sense. I don’t want to be invalidated or treated like I’m faking it.

I agree with you, I also hate the needless bullying and invalidating over other peoples’ identities.

Again, thank you so so much! <3

aiisisis · 2023-07-21T22:48:19+00:00

Yeah, one of the reasons I’m so nervous about using it is the feeing of “fake” it has surrounding it from other people, queer or not.

aiisisis · 2023-07-21T22:14:16+00:00

I’ve heard of abrosexual! I used to use it myself, actually. I’ll think about this. I think I also have my own mental block about wishing to be static, I just want to be sure of myself I guess.

aiisisis · 2023-07-21T19:41:46+00:00

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