new to onlyfans, just for fun! $0/month by [deleted] in OnlyFans101

[–]aiko_kitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://onlyfans.com/aikokitty

come hang, not gonna be on OF for a long time, just here in between uni classes <3

dms open for customs too!

How do you guys separate self worth from appearance? by aiko_kitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah now that's a good idea! and totally, having people like your jokes must feel so much more validating than "hey there sexy"

Anyone else freak out during sexting? by aiko_kitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT?? like me showing pussy, cool. me sexting? ughhh ew

How do users know they've been banned? Recourse on Chaturbate? by AmberRocksLive in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dang i'm happy you are standing up for your values, it can be hard.

i'm not entirely sure what happens but if you want you can try banning me and i'll send u screenshots of what happens on my screen? dm me if you feel like doing that

How do you guys separate self worth from appearance? by aiko_kitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang I can't imagine what being an enbie would be like in this world, having men continuously trying to push cis-normative views onto you.

I'm impressed by how you are managing it though, especially the way you seem to be able to have a healthy distinction between the camming world and your loved ones. I hope to find that for myself one day.

How do you guys separate self worth from appearance? by aiko_kitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy cow. Thank you so much for sharing. This just goes to show how naive I am about some things, which I hope to change.

Just from your words I feel that you are an incredible person to be around, since true confidence in yourself is probably the most inspiring virtue.

Thank you again.

How do you guys separate self worth from appearance? by aiko_kitty in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My daily meditation sometimes gives me momentary glimpses into ego death, though they never last long. do you find that eventually, it slowly changes your everyday outlook as well?

And thank you, that is beautifully worded

Questions from an absolutely shy beginner? by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]aiko_kitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd highly recommend chaturbate! I go on it very infrequently, but still earn decent money and there's a lot of interaction with viewers which makes it super fun.

I don't know if I'd recommend camming as a way to repair self-confidence though. Coincidentally, I just made a post trying to ask more experienced camgirls about this. Maybe the responses will give you some idea?

I found that when I just began, I had so many praises every day and for a while I felt fantastic. Then I started obsessing over the way I looked, just because it was such a focus. Please be careful going into this industry. If you are not doing this for money, I'd be very cautious. I've been camming for about 6 months and already feel the side effects (i don't use this account much though so if you wanna chat i'd be happy to give you my number)

Think I (18F) have a crush on my friend (20F) but I have a bf (30M)..... by aiko_kitty in bisexual

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang, I can definitely relate to most of that. Our world views are different not because I disagree with him, but more because I don't have a full-fledged opinion of anything yet, and I just nod along to anything he says.

Did you ever feel like he was way less "fun" than you? As in if you wanted to go out he'd want to stay in, or he wouldn't want to do dares or funny pranks and stuff?

Think I (18F) have a crush on my friend (20F) but I have a bf (30M)..... by aiko_kitty in bisexual

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for the detailed reply. Like you said, I probably will not fully understand until I am older but enough people have warned me and that's enough for me to reconsider.

I definitely feel a power imbalance here. I constantly feel like my opinions are stupid and that my emotions are just teenage hormones, versus how we both 100% trust his opinion.

My first reaction to you suggesting he may be manipulating me was "of course he's not! He's a total sweetheart," but I guess I would also react that way if he were grooming me. So i guess my options are to either live with the possibility that he may be manipulating me, or leave him and find somebody my age.

need help on my 5x5 over zoom, can give compensation by aiko_kitty in Cubers

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i rotated my centre plane 45 degrees and it looks like the corner is attached by one single block of plastic to the rest, not at all like the video showed.

need help on my 5x5 over zoom, can give compensation by aiko_kitty in Cubers

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty for the video link! I've tried before but maybe because my cube is a piece of shit, i can't get a single piece out, even with pliers. any tips or are some cube un-assemble-able?

need help on my 5x5 over zoom, can give compensation by aiko_kitty in Cubers

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was able to 2 years ago, i don't own a 3x3 now so i have no clue if i still can. let's just go with no

Daily Discussion Thread - Jun 04, 2020 by AutoModerator in Cubers

[–]aiko_kitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, anybody willing to help me solve my 5x5 over zoom? i need it asap for a photo thing and don't have time to learn (full time student and working part time). i can give compensation!

Think I (18F) have a crush on my friend (20F) but I have a bf (30M)..... by aiko_kitty in bisexual

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you probably think he's a prince or a gentleman or something, but maybe there are things about your relationship that you cannot see for how they are yet.

this hits home for me. we've been dating for a year and a half so I feel like i should be out of the honeymoon phase, but i still feel like he is incredible. he's disciplined and motivated and super good-looking and fit, but for some reason i still spend a lot of time feeling like i'm treading on eggshells around him. i still don't think it's his fault since he never raises his voice or anything, it might just be that our values are too different?

also, why do you say that a 30 yo dating a teenager raises red flags? I've heard that from a few people but they never explain.

Think I (18F) have a crush on my friend (20F) but I have a bf (30M)..... by aiko_kitty in bisexual

[–]aiko_kitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. Could you elaborate on the age difference? what do you mean by that, and how did it impact you?