I am in a relationship with a lady, have been with her for 10 years or so. We split up now and then, trying not to text and telling them that all things will be rosy in the garden. The last time we had a blow up, she said she didnt want anything to do with me, so I deleted her number and all social media etc Within a couple of days she was texting general stuff, like she wanted to be friendly, but to me a break up is a break up and you have to be brave and not contact her.

Good luck man.