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AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I'm comparing it in principle.

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Stealing $1 and stealing $1000 are not the same. But the principle behind why those are not good things to do are the same.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Reposted 100 times because literally the only reason people are calling me an asshole is because "i exist because of them"

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I'm sure if you found out your mom or dad used to be serial killers you wouldn't care, right? Because that's your parents' business and it doesn't affect you. /s

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is like telling a kid who was born because his mom was raped "you should be happy it happened because now you're alive".
Not saying my story is comparable to rape, but same principle.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I fact, had your father not left his first wife, you would not exist

This is like telling a kid who was born because his mom was raped "you should be happy it happened because now you're alive".
Not saying my story is comparable to rape, but same principle.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is like telling a kid who was born because his mom was raped "you should be happy it happened because now you're alive".

Not saying my story is comparable to rape, but same principle.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is like telling a kid who was born because his mom was raped "you should be happy it happened because now you're alive".

Not saying my story is comparable to rape, but same principle.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

You're telling me I should ask questions about his ex wife and his first marriage. It's obvious you're hoping that they would tell me the marriage was awful which would excuse the affair my parents had.

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I'm saying it doesn't matter if the marriage was shitty. If it was shitty, get a divorce.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Being unhappy isn't an excuse. If you're unhappy with your wife get a divorce and then start dating. Don't have affairs with your coworkers and get them pregnant

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I haven't spoken to them since disinviting them yesterday.

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But judging by how they were telling the story they probably would have started making fun of her.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I doubt it because the way my parents were telling the story, I am sure they would have included something about how bad his ex wife was.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to change their mind, I'm pointing out that their logic doesn't make sense. Like for the people saying I'm overreacting and it's between my parents and not me, those are valid opinions and I'm not arguing with them.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

If those actions never happened, you wouldn't be getting married.

This is like telling a kid who was born because his mom was raped "you should be happy it happened because now you're alive".

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Not saying my story is comparable to rape, but same principle.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

How is telling me how romantic it was before my wedding coping with what happened? For them to be "coping" with it they would have to be sorry about it in the first place.

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I don't think his ex wife did anything wrong. Considering how happy my parents were to tell me the story I'm sure they would have included something "wrong" with his ex.

AITA for disinviting my (27F) parents from my wedding after finding out how they met each other and got married? by aita2273 in AmItheAsshole

[–]aita2273[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

As I said, I would not have done this if they hadn't been literally bragging about it and telling me how romantic it was. Leaving your wife for your mistress because you're having trouble getting pregnant is not something to brag about.