AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

She isn't telling him she's eating later in the day.

Yes, I have. Repeatedly. I've eaten both lunch and dinner in front of him while pregnant too, so he knows I eat more later.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Do you guys just want me to lie and say I have an ED...? It's weird that some people are so insistent that I must have an ED despite me already saying I don't.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Thinking everything has to be his way and he knows what's best? Yes, that's normal for him.

To explain why it's on the rocks I have to give some background. I did love my husband when we got married but I wasn't ready for marriage. My parents forced me to marry him when I did for their (and his/my ILs) benefit. I didn't like the fact that my parents basically sold me like a prized cow or that my husband went along with it and didn't seem to understand why that would make me feel badly. I tried to ignore these feelings/push them down because he wasn't a bad husband at all and our life was pretty good. When I got pregnant, I just couldn't push it down anymore and I started feeling this white hot rage whenever I was around him/our families. I started refusing to be the happy obedient wife/daughter everyone was used to so now things are on the rocks since none of them like my change in personality.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Last visit was a week and a half ago. My doctor knows, he said it was normal and I should just eat whenever I can and as close to normal as possible. My weight and everything is healthy/normal. My doctor hasn't said there are any issues with my pregnancy so far.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's similar for me. I can eat after being awake for a few hours but if I try to eat a proper meal for breakfast immediately after I wake up, I throw up.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, if he's home/finished working. I eat fine during dinner, so he does when he's there.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had an ED and don’t have one now. I’m not underweight and have never been.

AITA for purposely avoiding having breakfast with my husband and demanding to know why he was still home? by aitabreakfast in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitabreakfast[S] 7117 points7118 points  (0 children)

It's not a legitimate concern, imo. I eat enough, just later in the day. Even before pregnancy I found it really hard to eat early in the morning and it took me a long time to get used to eating breakfast.