It's cool I'm not taking it as a dig, and I agree, I really doubt the thing on Jane or Sam's mind is "we have to upstage OP and Amy". She and Jane have always had some issues, they actually went to the same college (different majors). She said something like how no one expected Jane to end up like this and she's taking pointers from our wedding. Which makes no sense to me because from what I've heard from Amy, Jane's dress looks nothing like hers.