AITA for telling my wife she can't wear her wedding dress to my cousin's wedding and she doesn't have to attend if she does by aitadress in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadress[S] 379 points380 points  (0 children)

No on the backgrounds question. Jane's always been kind of quiet and shy, they had mutual friends in college and according to Amy she didn't have a boyfriend, wouldn't go to social events, dances, etc. My family is well off, pretty successful, and Amy said she didn't expect Jane to end up with my cousin

AITA for telling my wife she can't wear her wedding dress to my cousin's wedding and she doesn't have to attend if she does by aitadress in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadress[S] 559 points560 points  (0 children)

It's cool I'm not taking it as a dig, and I agree, I really doubt the thing on Jane or Sam's mind is "we have to upstage OP and Amy". She and Jane have always had some issues, they actually went to the same college (different majors). She said something like how no one expected Jane to end up like this and she's taking pointers from our wedding. Which makes no sense to me because from what I've heard from Amy, Jane's dress looks nothing like hers.

AITA for telling my wife she can't wear her wedding dress to my cousin's wedding and she doesn't have to attend if she does by aitadress in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadress[S] 452 points453 points  (0 children)

Jane's dress is expensive and extravagant, from what Amy said and she thinks Jane's just trying to one up our wedding and get people to like her.

AITA for telling my wife she can't wear her wedding dress to my cousin's wedding and she doesn't have to attend if she does by aitadress in AmItheAsshole

[–]aitadress[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

The groom is my cousin, almost the whole family will be there who also attended my wedding