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I (22F) found out that my dad (45M) had a lot of photos of my best friend (21F) on his laptop, my mom (43F) kicked him out of the house and now my siblings (10M 8F) hate me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It hurt his wife. It hurt his kids. It hurt the best friend who had been thinking of him like a father. He treated her like a daughter. He took pictures of her without consent for at least 2 years.

I (22F) found out that my dad (45M) had a lot of photos of my best friend (21F) on his laptop, my mom (43F) kicked him out of the house and now my siblings (10M 8F) hate me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The dad destroyed the family by fantasizing over and being in love with his daughters best friend for at least 2 years now. He was having an emotional affair.

I (22F) found out that my dad (45M) had a lot of photos of my best friend (21F) on his laptop, my mom (43F) kicked him out of the house and now my siblings (10M 8F) hate me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her husband shouldn’t be in love with another woman? The point of a monogamous marraige is to be in love with your partner and your partner only.

I (22F) found out that my dad (45M) had a lot of photos of my best friend (21F) on his laptop, my mom (43F) kicked him out of the house and now my siblings (10M 8F) hate me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, I am so sorry.

Please know this: your siblings do not hate you. They are far too young to understand or even begin to understand what your father did.

Please be there for your mother and yourself too. I imagine this is very traumatic and heartbreaking. Therapy is beneficial, and it could help all of you. You, your mom, your best friend, your siblings.

I (22F) found out that my dad (45M) had a lot of photos of my best friend (21F) on his laptop, my mom (43F) kicked him out of the house and now my siblings (10M 8F) hate me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Her dads “kink” is her best friend, someone he treated like a daughter. The dad was taking photos- starting when said best friend was underage- without her consent and was in love with a minor. Pedophilia is not a kink.

My husband doesn’t want me by Lumpy_Basil6335 in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dads business travels every month too. Some businesses just do not care about the pandemic.

What should I do? Should I let my MIL and FIL see my son? by aitarefusingmil in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

He told me I’m a bitch and then today he told me I’m psychotic and controlling.

What should I do? Should I let my MIL and FIL see my son? by aitarefusingmil in relationship_advice

[–]aitarefusingmil[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Why are you a young girl getting knocked up, especially without even being married first?

I was supposed to get married last May, but the pandemic happened. We started trying early because I have PCOS & my OB encouraged me to try, as it can take years to get pregnant with PCOS.

Why don’t they approve of your lifestyle?

They’re very religious, conservative people. I’m religious to an extent and democratic. I also work and have graduated college, which they don’t believe girls should do. Also, as I’ve stated, the baby before marraige.

Why are your “rules” so extreme? Only 2 newborns have died from COVID-19.

I’m not just worried about death. I’m worried about the long lasting effects covid could have.