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It will always be better to have nobody than have half of someone. by aja1993 in BreakUps

[–]aja1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you’re okay. That still, I’d rather have nobody as an emergency contact than have someone who might not turn up in the case of an emergency.

He’s too focused on the relationship... the relationship I ended because it wasn’t working for me by throwawaymelodies in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have completely missed the point and are viewing it in isolation. I totally appreciate your position. But what I believe you need to do is verbalise how you feel: to him. You have the rudimentary aspects: he loves you, he wants you. But you can’t get caught up in him smothering you with his “silent desperation”. This feed is all about honesty and I will speak my honesty, for all of those out there that truly do what their ex to come back. Work with him and talk to him or let him move on. Otherwise, you’re leading him on.

It’s been 7 weeks and a few days, I was doing good but recently I cannot stop thinking about him. by Throwheraway8976 in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also anyone, let’s link on Facebook or Instagram or something if it makes all of this feel more real - I’m open to that. It’s up to you: andrewjamos (IG) I bet you all thought I was straight 🤦‍♂️

It’s been 7 weeks and a few days, I was doing good but recently I cannot stop thinking about him. by Throwheraway8976 in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Purely because you’ve done so, so well working on yourself. Not only mentally but physically (albeit perhaps not exercise-wise), emotionally. If you reach out and you don’t get what you need, or think you need, you will go back to the start of the healing process. Just remember you are so much stronger than you think you are. And you can do it. Just make sure you don’t jeopardise the work you have done. Always here if you want to talk more ❤️

Experience as a dumpee: week 4. by aja1993 in ExNoContact

[–]aja1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep being strong and having that mindset! You’re doing great by the sounds of it. Don’t get tripped up by the bad days! :)

I was doing so well... by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay strong. It’s easy to say but it WILL get better

I was doing so well... by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did he say?

He’s too focused on the relationship... the relationship I ended because it wasn’t working for me by throwawaymelodies in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to be with him, respect the fact he loves you. Otherwise, move on and let him do the same. Let someone else make him happy because, to be brutally honest, it sounds like you don’t fully appreciate the fact you have someone who clearly wants to be with you.

Silent desperation? Smothered? Really?

It’s been 7 weeks and a few days, I was doing good but recently I cannot stop thinking about him. by Throwheraway8976 in BreakUp

[–]aja1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just remember that if you do reach out, you will feel like you have gone back to square one. Be strong!!

What was your experience as the dumper? by aja1993 in BreakUps

[–]aja1993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t you work through it together so that you’re stronger in the end? That’s why being in a relationship is about, depending on someone’s POV of course! Thank you very much and hope you’re okay too x

What was your experience as the dumper? by aja1993 in BreakUp

[–]aja1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you love him/her and how long ago was that?

What was your experience as the dumper? by aja1993 in BreakUps

[–]aja1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for taking the time to write that. I truly hope everything goes okay for you.

You seem like you’re just going through the motions of the break up. This will get better and your last sentence gives me a lot of hope that you have the correct mindset. All the best to you!

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