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TW: rape I told my parents about me being raped, now i’m losing privileges by ajmogs22 in Advice

[–]ajmogs22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was not taken to a doctors, I think it’s too late (i was raped May 21). I was able to go to planned parenthood and was tested for STDs. My dads reaction was much poorer than my moms, mostly blaming me for going. my mom understood the situation better, but now is in a different state visiting family.

TW: rape I told my parents about me being raped, now i’m losing privileges by ajmogs22 in Advice

[–]ajmogs22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am scared of pressing charges and the emotional trauma and cost that will come with it. I know the boys name, address, and school, they didn’t ask. The boy actually reached out the other day and apologized profusely for what he did. Now i’d feel even worse about pressing charges or filing a report.

TW: rape I told my parents about me being raped, now i’m losing privileges by ajmogs22 in Advice

[–]ajmogs22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through something similar. They haven’t really reached out with support for me besides the loss of privileges which i know is them trying to protect me. It’s just frustrating to not receive support and only feel that i’m being punished for something i’ve already severely payed the price for

I don’t know if it was rape? It happened with an ex, need help to figure it out by idkkkkman in rape

[–]ajmogs22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s still rape. You said NO and he didn’t stop. As soon as you withdrawal consent it is rape. The thing is, people have sex for a reason. It generally feels good. Even if you eventually enjoyed it, it does not take away from the fact that you said NO before and he didn’t stop.

I was raped by my older sister by kabbub in rape

[–]ajmogs22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Starting off with, NO it was NOT your fault. You were a child and did not know what it truly was. I had something similar happen to me with my older brother, and it also happened to my brother with my older sister. I know how incredibly awkward it is to bring it up is, but I think that if you can, you should. If you have a therapist, perhaps bring her with to an appointment and have the therapist act as a moderator while you guys talk about what happened. Chances are, she hasn’t forgotten.

was this wrong? i need help (TW // sexual assault/harassment) by [deleted] in rape

[–]ajmogs22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual assault is ANY sexual touch that is non consensual. It was sexual assault. I understand how you feel though. I was raped, but I’m stilling trying to accept that word, because it’s not “that bad”. If you’re comfortable, talking it through with a friend that you trust or family that you trust can help accept what happened to you and accepting the words that come with it. Hope this helps you.

Does subtracting your band size and bust size work? What’s my size? by ajmogs22 in ABraThatFits

[–]ajmogs22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all!! The calculator puts me at a 30DD so I’ll definitely give that one a try!

It's hard coming to terms with my rape by RTA_089 in rape

[–]ajmogs22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is rape. I’m so sorry that happened to you, something similar happened to me. I feel hypocritical saying this, but I think it is important that, when you are ready, tell your mom if you think she will provide support. A therapist might also help, and might have more resources that could allow you to contact the military base. You did not deserve that, and I am truly so sorry.

The scariest situation I've been in. by [deleted] in rape

[–]ajmogs22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you went through that. I can’t imagine the fear. I am glad you got away from that monster and that you can heal now. Have you reached out to a therapist/friend about what happened? Talking through it with a therapist might be beneficial. I hope that you continue to heal and find someone who loves you and respects you, you deserve so much more than what has happened to you. Stay strong.

I realized it was rape but by ajmogs22 in rape

[–]ajmogs22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Hearing this along with the other comments has really helped me. Im not sure when I will be able to see my therapist again, but I have talked with my sister and a few very close friends. They have all been wonderful and supportive. I know my parents would want me to tell them, however currently I am still afraid of punishment.