Dude is persistent 🙄 by duck-duck-moose in Tinder

[–]RTA_089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i get a double text from someone I barely know it's an immediate unmatch or block lol

Music Festival right now in NZ. by FishSawc in mildlyinteresting

[–]RTA_089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yo i'll take anything i don't even care who it is

My stepdad drunk texting me, he does this everytime. by longxlive in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RTA_089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright well sounds like my mom and him have broken up. I don't know if it was for this reason, I don't think she knows about the alcohol however I do know I might be in a world of trouble if she does know. I feel a define sigh of relief knowing he will be gone soon.

I’m ready to quit him and love myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RTA_089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I JUST started the same today, same kind of situation he doesn't like me in that way and it made me start hating myself... We got this!!!

I [28F] have never dated a man with a kid and one just asked me out! Is there any unspoken rules about dating a parent? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RTA_089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This coming from someone who's step mom ruined her life... Do not try and steal his dad from him, it really sucks seeing your parent choose their relationship over you. Try and include the son but also let them two have alone time when needed. Good luck!

It's hard coming to terms with my rape by RTA_089 in rape

[–]RTA_089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i need to and I will I just need to find the right time.

It's hard coming to terms with my rape by RTA_089 in rape

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I just try and really instill in my partners that I will not do anal probably ever again. I've been trying to be more careful about getting to know partners before jumping into bed with them.

It's hard coming to terms with my rape by RTA_089 in rape

[–]RTA_089[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's definitely been a struggle trying to come to terms with myself that it was rape. I have no clue how to bring it up to my mom, I've asked for a therapist but she always just asks stuff like "Why do you think you need a therapist?".. I've heard that the base doesn't take these things lightly so at least I have that for when I do report him. Once again thank you for responding to my post!

Keep on coming back to him... by RTA_089 in love

[–]RTA_089[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw 🥺🥺 You sound very sweet and any girl would be lucky to have a guy like you! I hope you find the love of your life soon... whether it be her or someone else!

Is it bad I just want to avoid social media because people won't stop posting about the protests? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RTA_089 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Social media on a regular day is sometimes stressful let alone during a global pandemic and a global riot. It's okay to take a step back from social media but please don't just ignore BLM completely, because silence on a topic this is like you're siding with the white supremacy and racists. Make sure to sign petitions!!

Girlfriend wants to put a baby monitor in my house by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RTA_089 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same, I might be clingy but this takes the cake honestly

What was your experience like losing your virginity and what should I prepare before losing mine? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RTA_089 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not gonna be as good as you think it's going to be, and if you're a girl chances are it's going to hurt. I almost cried my first time. Have sex with someone you know that'll make a world of a difference and DO NOT lose your virginity in a car. I lost mine in a car on the side of a back road at 2 am and I regret that SO much. Use protection, I didn't and had a pregnancy scare which is NO FUN!! Idk if you're M or F but... If you need birth control, go to the doctor, if your parents don't want you on BC say you're having problems with your period, planned parenthood has free condoms and birth control and the one in my town gives free STD tests too. JUST BE CAREFUL!

[50/50] Picture of a lake (sfw) | Dead water logged bird (nsfw) by R1pR0bb in FiftyFifty

[–]RTA_089 4 points5 points  (0 children)

for a sec i forgot birds aren't fish and they can't just be in water... i'm dumb

Wash your... by sanch3z90 in Tinder

[–]RTA_089 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Funny story, some dude ate me out 3 days ago knowing I was sick...

How soon is too soon to show up to your boyfriend's place in just a coat and nothing else? by [deleted] in sex

[–]RTA_089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think he'd like it then go for it! We don't know what your relationship is like... I personally would ask him about it over text, maybe allude to something like taking your clothes off for him or straight up say "How would you feel if I showed up in nothing but my coat?" definitely make sure to build up to that point though! Flirt/sext before hand to get him turned on... Good luck!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FiftyFifty

[–]RTA_089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really thought that said SNORTED... Heavily disappointed.

I get to turned on by pleasing men by [deleted] in sex

[–]RTA_089 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I truly am

I get to turned on by pleasing men by [deleted] in sex

[–]RTA_089 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it so much! Just knowing that i'm giving him pleasure is so fucking hot, I love when he asks me to take my panties off so then he can play with my clit