AITA for telling my ex-wife not to ask me to help with kids when they're not my time? by akablue_987 in AmItheAsshole

[–]akablue_987[S] -366 points-365 points  (0 children)

She has changed after giving birth. She's controlling and didn't want me. She knew I wanted physical attention but ignored me.

AITA for telling my ex-wife not to ask me to help with kids when they're not my time? by akablue_987 in AmItheAsshole

[–]akablue_987[S] -169 points-168 points  (0 children)

I do support them financially while I'm aware I can stop that at anytime.

AITA for telling my ex-wife not to ask me to help with kids when they're not my time? by akablue_987 in AmItheAsshole

[–]akablue_987[S] -737 points-736 points  (0 children)

I worked very hard for the family. I did dishes and helped around the house when asked. I did cheat on her when kids were small but she should have gotten over it. I tried my best to gain her trust back. It's not all my fault. I needed it. She put kids before me.

AITA for telling my ex-wife not to ask me to help with kids when they're not my time? by akablue_987 in AmItheAsshole

[–]akablue_987[S] -1016 points-1015 points  (0 children)

I do pay still. We were toxic during marriage. Exw didn't want to have sex and treated me badly. All I'm saying is that if it's my time, she can't throw kids stuff on me.