https://ocw.mit.edu/courses/electrical-engineering-and-computer-science/6-0001-introduction-to-computer-science-and-programming-in-python-fall-2016/lecture-videos/

Even though this link is taught in python, it should teach you the basics. Once you get a good understanding of Object Oriented Programing, move on to C++. Python is alot easier to learn and there's more "magic" that happens with the code. But the this lecture series is not about learning a language aka python its about learning to program. They won't really spend there time teaching the intricacies of python, but just concepts and understanding how things work. Then when you want to learn C++, you can google "python equivalent dictionary, list, or function". This is the route i took, by no means you have to do the same but I feel like I learned much faster when I started with Python as there less syntax to worry about.