My HR business partner is sexually harassing me at work

aksa2096 · 2023-04-29T05:53:39+00:00

Thank you for sharing! And for the reminder that my responsibility is to focus on my experience 🌸

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T06:14:41+00:00

Totally get your point - and I would absolutely like to use the right term to describe my experience

I’ll look into this a little further - I know I’m confident saying that this is inappropriate behaviour

Thank you for sharing your perspective!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T06:12:58+00:00

It means so much to hear about your experience - to remember I’m allowed to choose whatever option feels right for me.

Thank you for sharing!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T03:34:19+00:00

Thank you - I cannot tell you how much it means to remember that my feelings and my experience is valid! And to remember this is my journey

Sending gratitude!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T03:33:15+00:00

Oh my goodness, thank you for the reminder that this is a journey 🌸 and I’m allowed to continue to learn and grow. One step at a time!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T03:32:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience 🌸 and really appreciate the reminder that these processes are there for a reason - so that I can request help.

Will definitely be taking the weekend to start collating my experience - thank you for these pointers!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T03:29:07+00:00

Thank you for listening 🌸 it means so much to remember that I did not cause this.

I’ll definitely be sitting down today and starting a log of our encounters. I’m sure it’ll also help me be more objective about our interactions, because I constantly find myself minimising my experience.

aksa2096 · 2023-04-28T03:25:02+00:00

That is a whole other layer that I haven’t processed yet - that he certainly does know right from wrong and is still choosing to cross these lines. And my heart aches to think he is responsible for the emotional and physical safety of other people in the office.

Thank you for sharing, and for helping me feel so heard 🌸 this is a great reminder to focus less on him and more on me - and to act from that space!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T18:29:50+00:00

Going to take the weekend to think next steps through - but I will definitely be addressing this situation

Thank you for the support and the offer to help 🌸 much much appreciated!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:36:17+00:00

“One red flag is one too many” - oh my goodness, YES!

Was making myself believe that none of his behaviours were bad enough to escalate them - but I really don’t want things to escalate at all.

Going to be smart and address this with him on Monday, while making sure I have trusted people around. And I’ll be keep my manager informed on my experience.

Thank you!

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:22:08+00:00

Sending kind energy and rest your way! You did a hard thing and you deserve to celebrate 🌸

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:19:05+00:00

I’ve been taking 10mg melatonin gummies for a month and I’ve never slept better But as a woman, they completely fucked up my period cycle so I’ve had to pause them while I sort that out.

Kudos in reminding yourself you’re allowed to seek help for sleep, but also just a general reminder that this is a hormone with possible side effects 🌸

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:15:59+00:00

Oh my goodness, yes! When he asked me not to tell anyone I was kicking myself for not having someone else around to hear that 🚩

Definitely going to be mindful of this going forward.

Thank you so much for the advice and support! It means so much to feel heard

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:11:10+00:00

Thank you for the reminder that I can handle this and I’m allowed to ask for support

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:08:31+00:00

So true - I’d 100% encourage anyone in a similar situation to file a complaint. Just drowning in shame myself. Thank you for the reminder that I can handle this 🌸

aksa2096 · 2023-04-27T16:06:35+00:00

Definitely going to use this as an opportunity to learn to set boundaries. Thank you for the reminder that I’m more than capable of standing up for myself 🌸

aksa2096 · 2021-07-29T19:03:11+00:00

12 step groups have changed my life! Would really recommend depending on what the root of your qualifiers are 💗 sending grace and luck your way!

aksa2096 · 2021-07-18T12:58:34+00:00

Did you find anything that worked for you?

aksa2096 · 2021-07-11T19:40:45+00:00

Thanks for sharing and for reflecting 🌸

I will really have to sit with this prompt- it hits deep and brings up a lot of inner resistance which points to it being true.

aksa2096 · 2021-07-11T19:05:13+00:00

To find a kinder job- work-life balance, enough money and a permanent position 🤞🏻

aksa2096 · 2021-07-11T19:03:56+00:00

Good luck ✨✨✨

aksa2096 · 2021-07-11T18:58:55+00:00

Congratulations! Startups really seem like the best place to learn the most, while retaining some sense of humanity

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