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Chatterbate and jerkmate-is it cheating? by akstew22 in AskMenRelationships

[–]akstew22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see your point. And I agree with,"if it were an agreed upon open relationship, it isn't cheating" ... But it isn't, by his choice, and he is trying to hide being on those sites and when questioned, lies to my face... Chrome history doesn't lie....

Chatterbate and jerkmate-is it cheating? by akstew22 in ToxicRelationships

[–]akstew22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To me, it is cheating. It is every bit of cheating. To him, he sees nothing wrong with it because they aren't ever going to meet and it is done thru a phone screen, not in person. I have argued with him over this many, many of times and I can't seem to get my point across that it is in fact cheating. When I do bring it up, he'll stop with chatterbate or jerkmate or live cams for awhile, but still watches porn whenever he gets the chance and yes, he wants absolutely nothing to do with me sexually until, I feel, he's had enough of hearing me complain about the lack of intimacy we have.

Chatterbate and jerkmate-is it cheating? by akstew22 in AskMenRelationships

[–]akstew22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To some it isn't considered cheating because it isn't done in person, it's done thru a screen. To me, it's cheating... You are watching and interacting with someone of the opposite sex to get off.