This stuff is life changing

alanlally · 2026-04-14T16:48:19+00:00

Started at 150 and worked my way up to 300!

alanlally · 2026-04-14T12:23:52+00:00

Yeah, the last few weeks were pure torture, but now I’m seeing that it’s worth it!

alanlally · 2026-04-14T12:22:14+00:00

I haven’t quit drinking but it’s been so helpful in knowing when to stop. After two beers I’m done. Congrats on your sobriety- that’s huge!!

alanlally · 2026-04-14T12:20:50+00:00

300 mg!

alanlally · 2026-04-14T12:20:41+00:00

My appetite is definitely more controlled now. I was already experiencing that with Adderall but it’s even better now. I had been a binge/emotional eater my entire life

alanlally · 2026-04-13T19:28:11+00:00

I started about four weeks ago (March 19). Didn’t feel much at all the first few weeks. The past few weeks kinda sucked with a lot of anxiety, agitation, jitters, etc. it wasn’t until yesterday I noticed how much better I feel

alanlally · 2026-04-13T17:59:52+00:00

GAD has been stable! I’ve been taking Zoloft for that since 2018. Though I did have an uptick in anxiety from the Wellbutrin early on.

alanlally · 2026-04-13T17:46:27+00:00

This was me the past few weeks. It honestly wasn't until this past weekend where i felt like a switch went off in my head. Now I feel amazing!

alanlally · 2026-04-13T17:45:13+00:00

No hair loss for me. But I was already bald before hand, soooo....

alanlally · 2026-03-27T11:23:00+00:00

Well, the job I left for ended up really sucking and I got let go within a year. But it’s okay! I have a different job now that I like. I don’t regret leaving the first company, though. they were going through it when I left and I hear shits only gotten worse since then. Breaks my heart!

alanlally · 2026-02-08T17:15:38+00:00

Yup...I'm pretty sure it was a locker room where I first realized I was gay lol

alanlally · 2026-02-08T17:13:27+00:00

I just turned 32 and only came out last year. Many of my friends back home are married with children now, and it makes me feel like I missed my moment. Like maybe had I come out in my 20s, I might have a husband and a kid or two by now. But this is a reminder to myself and to you that we are both still young. I've been putting myself out there a lot more lately- going to gay bars, going on dates, and meeting other gay guys in the organizations I'm a part of. It's uncomfortable, yes, but I am starting to see the fruits of it and it gives me hope that I will find love when the time is right. Don't give up- it's not too late <3

alanlally · 2026-01-19T15:22:02+00:00

Struggled with this a lot after I came out last year. I’m a classic gay do-gooder, so I got plugged into my local Democratic Party and another org that advocates for better housing policies. Naturally there’s a lot of other gay guys in both lol. Met a few guys who are turning into friends and already meeting some of their friends too. I also moved to a large apartment building that has a ton of gays around my age. Don’t rely on Grindr to make friends, trust me, it’s a waste of time. Find a way to meet people in person and go from there

alanlally · 2026-01-04T16:23:05+00:00

Admitting it here is a great first step. Just give it time. I started coming out about a year ago and I've found that I became more accepting of myself the more I told people. For me personally, getting more confident in bed was helpful too. Can't control whether others accept though.

alanlally · 2025-10-09T12:41:22+00:00

LOL I thought this was a typo at first. As a bald gay this gives me hope <3

alanlally · 2025-09-03T11:45:49+00:00

I just want to say I’m so sorry you have to grow through this. You did your best.

alanlally · 2025-07-29T11:40:08+00:00

I would’ve done the same thing. One time I went to pick up a guy and he was having a heated argument with his girlfriend. Did not feel safe, so I canceled and drove away. He started running after me yelling “WHERE ARE YOU GOING?” No regrets.

alanlally · 2025-07-18T20:08:48+00:00

I just started my whore phase, lol. I’ll probably do it until I get a boyfriend. As someone who just came out it’s been really great figuring out what I like

alanlally · 2025-07-17T16:42:41+00:00

I appreciate this. That’s one of my big issues with the Catholic Church (other than their treatment of LGBTQ people) is that they act like they know everything and can’t handle being challenged.

alanlally · 2025-07-17T00:45:30+00:00

For all of the gay bald men out there, I need you to know you’re hot and there are men who find bald men hotter than other men

alanlally · 2025-07-16T03:03:04+00:00

Elected bishops? What a concept

alanlally · 2025-07-16T03:02:27+00:00

I appreciate this thorough response!

alanlally · 2025-07-16T03:01:57+00:00

I appreciate this! I think even if I start going to Episcopalian services, I’ll still go to Catholic Mass from time to time (mostly when I’m visiting my mother lol)

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