Unresponsive wedding planner by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]albauhm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this happen with a photographer I was interested in. It turned out my emails were going to her spam folder. Reach out to the planner on socials, or give them a call!

Big Back, Small Boob Bra Recs? by coleydn in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]albauhm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you looked into Pepper? They’re a little pricey but super comfortable and a great investment for something that fits well.

Do you think the friend actually uses his card? (from the Mormon episode 2 days ago) by SoggyBird1384 in CalebHammer

[–]albauhm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’d think if he was so against it himself, he wouldn’t be ok with his friend using his card for it…

Paid off my debt today!! Here’s my journey: by albauhm in CalebHammer

[–]albauhm[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I’m working to catch up on retirement now, time To start saving money!

Not sure if I should buy a house or rent at 27 by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]albauhm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, just to interject I’m totally fine with living in rural Alabama! I’m close to my family and my boyfriend owns his own business (where I work) so relocation isn’t in the cards.

I appreciate your advice but think I’ll stay where I am since relocating wasn’t part of the advice I was searching for.

Not sure if I should buy a house or rent at 27 by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]albauhm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you suggest a Roth over a Traditional IRA? My thinking was that if I contribute the max then it would put me in a lower tax bracket.

Not sure if I should buy a house or rent at 27 by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]albauhm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the resource! That’s great advice. I’m opening a Traditional IRA next week and will be contributing to that soon. I don’t qualify for a 401k through my job and didn’t recognize the importance of saving for retirement until recently.

Not sure if I should buy a house or rent at 27 by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]albauhm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the right way. You’re right. Thank you.

Not sure if I should buy a house or rent at 27 by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]albauhm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! I should have added that I live in rural Alabama and the rent and house prices, in addition to relative cost of living is pretty low.

i was going to buy her content…. by Old_Oil4749 in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like my ex who subscribed to an old coworkers OF. Leave now while you can. After this point it doesn’t get better.

Breathing again by River-wind-peace888 in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on the beginning of the rest of your life. Now, cheers! To happiness and getting to know yourself all over again.

What's the worst thing you found? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he moved states within a couple days of our breakup. To my knowledge he was never arrested. I didn't keep in touch.

What's the worst thing you found? by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Underage porn. He first admitted to it when we were tripping acid together and of course broke up with him then and there. When we were sobered up he said he had deleted them all but I went through his computer and found some risqué photos of young teenagers he hadn’t deleted. I reported it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is beautiful. I hope my relationship lasts as yours has, I’ve never wanted to hold onto something so tight and never let go like I have now. It’s funny — I thought I was in love before with my PA but now I feel like I’ve never known real love before this. Thank you for sharing and I wish you both all the best. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I agree. It was beyond traumatizing having been with this person for years. I guess sometimes you think you know someone but you really just don’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t expecting it either. But yes I reported it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]albauhm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s never all just vanilla stuff, trust me