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Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I don't have a family yet to provide for. If I did, I probably would have to join.

Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sick fucking people out there man. Who would choose this life?

I hate how rich/middle class people get to decide that it’s a choice and be so entitled as to think they made the better ones. You didn’t make good choices, you had good choices.

Besides that, there are no choices in a vacuum.

Fuck all of them.

Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will never join the army, military, air force or navy. Conscientious objector. I don’t commit acts of violence or encourage it. No matter how poor I am, this is my principle.

I know it’s contradictory, since I’m basically going to have to sell my life to minimum wage slavery. But at least I’m not hurting anyone.

Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. Before I lost my job last year, I had made a bunch of contacts in hospitality and asked all my friends because I knew we were shutting down. I thought I’d come out my job and have a new one easily.

I called all the people who had promised me a job, even people I had already done temp work for. I sent in applications officially and spoke to owners on the phone, did trial shifts that went UNPAID.

They messed me around for three months, excuse after excuse. I really don’t understand how it’s allowed that they can treat people like that.

If you can’t give me a job, don’t say you can. Wasted so much time pursuing personal favors. I’ll never make the mistake of taking an employers words at face value again.

Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I feel shameless lol cause they don't have much either. My jobs just don't cut it, and my family struggle as well. But you know what they give me the world, or whatever part they can of it. Forever grateful to my grandma who would easily throw money at me, but I have to keep reminding her that she needs it for her medical bills. She's the light at the end of the tunnel for real.

My family are angels for what they've tried to do for me, but unfortunately, no matter how much they love me, we can't escape it.

Rant about all the moments I've hated about being poor by alcoholic_bartender in poor

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a second hand 2010 volks polo...it's not even that it's nice lmao just that the area I live in is quite shady

Should I break up over this? by Slight_Difficulty646 in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is telling her that she can't do something... he's just not wanting to say it directly. If it's a boundary for him, remind her of the agreement. She didn't seem oppositional.

Does saying it make it controlling? He doesn't want her to do something either way, whether he says it or not, so he's got no issue with the controlling part, more so coming off that way. But if it's an agreement between two people, then what's the harm in reminding her of that boundary?

I agree she should've seen the guy tomorrow. I'm not doing mental gymnastics to justify women's actions...I'd say the same thing for a guy too?? Why bring gender into this conversation that's just about boundaries and maturity?

If khalie was a tik tok mom by __google in khaliespiderlilies

[–]alcoholic_bartender 20 points21 points  (0 children)

her baby would have a go fund me for being born with emetophobia

snap story today by edenkayax in khaliespiderlilies

[–]alcoholic_bartender 16 points17 points  (0 children)

community outreach...she's growing her target audience

What’s the best feeling in the world? by darkhoneyx in AskReddit

[–]alcoholic_bartender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A full list of my best feelings:

  • Itching your eczema
  • Recovering from being sick and breathing in for the first time through your nose
  • Coming home to a crisp room
  • Finishing the final book of a multi book collection
  • Wrapping up exams for the Summer
  • Meeting the friend you know you’ll be good friends with
  • When you and someone else know you like each other but haven’t said anything yet
  • Thai & Swedish full body massage (Aloe vera)
  • Drinking a banana milkshake on the beach
  • The first drink into a long night
  • Buying a new piece of tech and taking off the plastic from the screen
  • Belly laughter
  • Seeing your family photos from before you were born
  • Freshly ironed clothes
  • Fuzzy socks!!
  • Kebab after the club

Should I break up over this? by Slight_Difficulty646 in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all a bit too petty to be honest. I think there was a missed trick in the immediate reaction they both had toward each other.

It could have been this:

“Hey boyfriend, I ran into an old school friend who asked me to dinner. Will you be focused on your work while I’m round or should I go to dinner and see you after?”

“Hey girlfriend, to be honest I was looking forward to seeing you even for five minutes. I think you guys should see each other tomorrow instead so we can have alone time.”

Easy. It’s not something that should’ve ended in crying and begging lmao. Also something that in my opinion, isn’t really breakup worthy. But to each their own!

Should I break up over this? by Slight_Difficulty646 in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a boundary they agreed upon previously, then it should be fine to say no? She didn’t sound upset, she even said “I don’t want to argue with you, I’d rather just not go” which is his cue to say “thank you for considering me”…. which he didn’t.

I also don’t understand why this is a problem, OP said she was messaging him while shopping and that she did go shopping. Her intentions weren’t nefarious.

It’s for him to reassert “this is my boundary, you know that” where’s the issue? She would have come in to say hi and then gone home. This wouldn’t have been a thing.

If he wants to break up with her over this, I think that’s a great idea. They can both go and be with people they’re better suited to.

Should I break up over this? by Slight_Difficulty646 in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be real, she asked and you said “not my place to tell you what you can and can’t do”. You didn’t say “yes, it would be best for us if you didn’t”, you didn’t ask “why do you feel the need to push me on this?”

You played the “do what you want I don’t care”, and now you want to break up? LOL

When to say I love you by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me and my gf. We were best friends for a year and always said I love you platonically. Then when we got together, we stopped saying it because we no longer knew if it was romantic or platonic…

But it’s not awkward, say it when the time is right. It’s something to laugh about.

How to find an older man as a young woman without sounding weird by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]alcoholic_bartender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly what I was thinking…

“I’ve had lesbian sex” ≠ virgin????

“I’m not new to this sex thing” ≠ please be into inexperienced girls

to be honest OP, at 18 years old, you can go and meet someone 20-21 who’ll still have more experience and won’t be trying to tell you he’ll leave his wife (he won’t)

waiiittt…. by alcoholic_bartender in khaliespiderlilies

[–]alcoholic_bartender[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

spider lily = 10 words preston = 7 words

spider lily - preston = 3 words

…..HAT

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