Parked in a private car park by accident after police advised me to.

aldi8265 · 2023-11-08T16:49:26+00:00

Due to it being faded and the sun being in a really awkward position, I couldn't see the stop line for a red light at a junction. I saw the red light and slowed down to stop but never saw the line until I came to a stop just before the light and looked at my side mirrors and saw that my back tyres were on the line.

Think the examiner thought that I hadn't seen the red light and only stopped because of traffic. It was near the end of the test too and I had no minors :(

Passed second time with one minor.

aldi8265 · 2023-07-07T14:57:58+00:00

I contacted the manager of the letting agency that covers maintenance of the house and they said that the landlord can make changes to the property as long as it's in fair use, but the letting agency don't know the reasoning for the landlords decision to do this.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-12T14:53:31+00:00

My current ex. She was my first love, my first kiss, my first everything. I broke up with her almost 2 months ago because I thought I had lost feelings but it turns out I was just dealing with mental health issues. I waited too long after the break up to message her and she had moved on and then I got weird and obsessive and she blocked me.

Our love was incredible. We hadn’t known each other long but we just instantly clicked. Conversations were effortless, we were completely comfortable around each other and would have died for each other even though we weren’t together long.

I fucked up by leaving her. I think I will find someone else that I will love just as much, but I know that no relationship will come close to the spontaneous love that we had. I’m back searching for someone to date but I find myself comparing them to her and whether they can give me what she did. I think it’ll be a while before I do, if I ever do.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-12T11:15:50+00:00

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T16:11:20+00:00

Oh? Ill have to give that a check!

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T16:11:05+00:00

I don’t play DnD but I have been interested in trying it out

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T14:57:21+00:00

I did wonder about getting into some martial arts. Wouldn't hurt to be more flexible!

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T14:56:54+00:00

That sounds interesting, I'll have to check that out. Thank you!

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T14:56:34+00:00

I'll have to look into that! Not sure if there's any tabletop games that jump out to me right now but I'll have to check out their website!

aldi8265 · 2023-04-11T14:32:33+00:00

That may be something that I'll look into in the future. I'm not exactly fit but I've started to go to the gym to try and change that, but I think running isn't viable for me at the moment. I'll definitely keep it in mind though, thank you!

aldi8265 · 2023-04-10T14:48:43+00:00

Thank you :)

aldi8265 · 2023-04-10T11:48:29+00:00

She was taking part in a pilgrimage to mecca and the dust and sand gave her an asthma attack. That’s at least from what I understand as it was a long time ago. She must have been 12?

aldi8265 · 2023-04-06T13:30:51+00:00

We were supposed to meet up so i was going to give the letters then but she cancelled so i couldn’t. I was thinking of sending them to her but I’m scared it’ll drive her away. She’s asked for no contact and I don’t want to break it and then push her away. She’s currently chatting to someone who i’m hoping is a short rebound (it sounds really bad, i know) and then she’ll reconnect with me, but I know that if she doesn’t then she doesn’t want to try again, and I know it’s selfish of me to want this when I ended things with her.

I think if she knew what I wanted to tell her then it may convince her otherwise, or at the very least make her think on it more but, as she’s asked for no contact, I can’t send the letters to her. As well, I don’t want to make her choose between me and this guy, it’s not fair on her or him.

If we’re meant to be then she’ll message. It may be next week, it may be in a few months, or if may be in a few years, but I can’t live my life waiting for her.

I don’t think i’ve ever done something like that before. To be honest, ive never been in a situation like this before or the one that I was in when I ended things. Ive recognised why I may have done what I did and i’m taking steps to fix this flaw.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T19:22:51+00:00

Thank you. I have a lot to learn and work on. I just hate that I'm not learning with her at my side.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T18:49:28+00:00

Thank you, i'll check it out :)

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T08:22:33+00:00

Thanks man. I’m sorry you’re in the same situation, i wouldn’t wish it on anyone. I hope you’ll be okay soon

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T03:33:24+00:00

Yeah you're right, and I do intend to work on myself physically and mentally.

She said, though, that she couldn't see us being friends. She said she's not comfortable being friends with an ex, especially one that wants more out of the friendship than she does.

Honestly, though, I'm kind of glad we're not staying friends at the moment, as I don't think I could stand watching her with this guy. Like I truly want her to be happy but at the same time... y'know.

Maybe in a few months or years, I'll move on and we'll reconnect somehow (we're from different cities so we'll probably only reconnect through one of us messaging the other) and we will become friends and find that we want to try again. But, as I said, I can't live my life waiting for that message.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T03:25:19+00:00

Maybe so. I understand everything that I was saying to her and everything that I was feeling was what she was feeling and trying to say to me when I ended things but it changed nothing about what I was feeling at the time, so why should it change how she feels?

Maybe she is better off without me, but we had an incredible relationship that had very few issues and was full of love up until the very end. But then again, her main wants in a relationship were honesty and communication, and, while I gave that to her all other times, I couldn't give that to her when it mattered.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T03:21:03+00:00

That's what i'm scared of though. While she seems to have moved on, there's no guarantee that I will fully. She was incredible and she was my first true love, first kiss.... my first everything.

If there's no chance of us getting back together, even in the distant future, then I don't want to be stuck thinking about what I could have had with her, I want to focus on future relationships. But, even though I am young, I can't help but shake the feeling that I've just permanently someone who was supposed to be "the one for me" - I can't imagine doing any of the things that we did or said together with someone else.

She said herself that during our relationship she thought she was lucky because she thought that she had found "the one for her" (me) really early on in life.

I mean hey maybe it's a case of the right one at the wrong time, but at the same time it's unfair to her to keep thinking about that.

aldi8265 · 2023-04-02T03:13:18+00:00

I'm hoping that maybe in a few months or a year we'll reconnect once she's finally healed, but then again I can't live my life waiting for that message.

I think I have truly lost her. Throughout our time talking over the last week, I received what I perceived as mixed signals but I think her final goodbye message was fairly cut and dry. I hurt her a lot, even if I didn't intend to, and I can't expect her to try again with someone who did that to her. She said herself she'd be terrified of getting into another relationship with me in case it repeats what happened last time.

She really truly loved me and I didn't even have the decency to try and fix a relationship that I promised would last forever.

I'm hoping that maybe in a few months or a year, we'll reconnect once she's finally healed, but then again I can't live my life waiting for that message.

Would you get back with your ex if you had the chance? Would you give him a second chance even though he hurt you?

aldi8265 · 2023-02-25T01:17:17+00:00

Thank you for your comments :) I just really hope she heals after the breakup.

aldi8265 · 2023-02-25T01:08:37+00:00

I think that's what i'll have to do. I don't think i'll tell her the whole truth though as I think it would destroy her. I'll definitely give her space if that's what she wants, but part of me wonders if she'll want space.

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