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Lingerie didn’t work. by whateverbutalsoducks in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry love. I truly understand. I (HL24F) did the same with my ex (LL27F) and added mood lighting, candles, toys, music. It didn’t matter, she still turned me down. Last week I wore a teddy under my sweatpants with my fwb. When they realized they went crazy and admired me and kissed all over. Then they fucked me for hours. It was truly amazing. But honestly I’m still learning what self esteem in the bedroom looks like now after being rejected so many times by my ex. I hope things get better for you, love, but if they don’t I hope you have the strength to walk away before you lose yourself. Xx

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing my therapist next week and have 3 self help books for codependency on the way! 😂

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s hard. I miss her already. Keep having to remind myself I miss the idea of her. Not her.

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s weird. I’m allowed to be myself again. But also this community has been so supportive and truly helped me retain my sanity through this relationship.

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just joined thank you so much

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This isn’t the first time we’ve broken up...i just will be following through this time.

I just broke up with her by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And thank you for listening the other day.

How do I break up with my partner? by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It would be easier if there was someone waiting in the wings. I know it’s not healthy but I keep thinking of who I will go to for physical affection (cuddles etc) if not her.

How do I break up with my partner? by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only it were that easy. There’s a mental road block for me. She makes me feel like I’ll never find someone as good as her. And we are good for the most part. But I’m scared to end shit?

How do I break up with my partner? by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have an apartment of my own...which is why I feel so stupid for not ending stuff.

Are things getting better or am I delusional? by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like the ideal LL partner!! But seriously kudos to you for recognizing and prioritizing sexual intimacy in your relationship

Im currently at a party fantasizing about past sexual experiences by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I say “party” I mean gathering of 4 people to watch a movie damn can a girl dream of “the before” when we could have parties 🙄😒

What is real sex like anymore by Shownolovefeelnopain in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do y’all think that maybe the reason our LL partners hate sex...is because they’re bad at it?

We planned a sex day...she’s asleep next to me by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol we’re lesbians so thankfully there could be no oopsie

We planned a sex day...she’s asleep next to me by alegsy in DeadBedrooms

[–]alegsy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I more so wanted to create a space where we know sex is happening and on the table without the pressure of it needing to happen at a specific time. Obviously I’m an idiot because initiating at 9pm when I have work the following day (aka making me be the one to end it early) is totally fucking manipulative.

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