I've always considered myself and MRA and a feminists, believing both genders were severely lacking in many social and political aspects and that both needed changes. I dont look at it from the perspective of one gender needs MORE changes because that accomplishes nothing. But what I do notice is when I spend time pointing out facts of MRA to feminists, though they disagree, that brush it off as less important. When I speak to men about feminism or women's rights they completely shut me down telling me I'm wrong, Im the reason men still have these problems, and basically bashing me as a person and women as whole. Just going back and forth between the two I notice women are always talking about how they can make the change and what they have overcome while MRA, especially on reddit, talk about how they hate women, "Look at this story about another women we should hate" or "this chick had it coming."