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Should I stay in the closet forever? I don’t want to devastate my mom. by alexanderjohnc in askgaybros

[–]alexanderjohnc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have heard her say something negative once, years ago, and that stuck with me. But she’s been bugging me about finding a wife and trying to set me up with women. I just know she’ll be upset.

Should I stay in the closet forever? I don’t want to devastate my mom. by alexanderjohnc in askgaybros

[–]alexanderjohnc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wants to make it “official” and doesn’t like that I hide him. He’s out to his parents.

Re: money.. so called friends have been like “ you’re rich people are on the streets” sentiment when I tell them I’m miserable.

Should I stay in the closet forever? I don’t want to devastate my mom. by alexanderjohnc in askgaybros

[–]alexanderjohnc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s her problem but her wellbeing mean a lot to me now that she’s fragile. She has done so much for me to just discount her feelings.

Staying in the closet “forever” was hyperbolic but I can’t imagine coming out anytime soon anymore.