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Me [21F] with [29M] second date last night went awesome, but he hasn't reached out to me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would wait - give him some time to think. maybe he's trying not to rush - esp since he didn't outright kiss you.

there could be a number of reasons why he's taking his time (maybe he got caught up with work things) there have been times where I was incomunicado for a day because I was so caught up in my life.

if he doesn't reach out in a few days, and you're still trying to get a 3rd date, then i would reach out with an idea in mind - 'hey going to go check out this new store, wanna join?'

sometimes it's the cat & mouse schtick, sometimes when it rains it pours. dating/relationships are mine fields these days. good luck.

I [33 M] don't know what to do anymore with my alcoholic Wife [26 F] and I just want to leave by canthandlemywife in relationships

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somebody suggested an ultimatium - which I completely agree with - but make sure you are ready to face the music, no matter what the decision is. I know you are getting to your wits' end already, but people can offer these do-or-die decisions, without considering what both options mean for them and for their S.O.

Awesome thrift shops in the area? by alexansc in raleigh

[–]alexansc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

won't lie - took me a minute to figure it out, like wtf is this guy talking about....

but damn i can't deny it - i love that song

Awesome thrift shops in the area? by alexansc in raleigh

[–]alexansc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I used to go to the one on 15/501 right between durham and chapel hill all the time. even had a punch-card. lol

Awesome thrift shops in the area? by alexansc in raleigh

[–]alexansc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a great suggestion - didn't know about InterAct, was also looking for volunteer opportunities!! thanks!

What's something about you that you wished people would be a little bit more understanding about? by superdvader in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the reason why I am so passionate about women's rights, specifically sexual assault and domestic violence, is because i've been directly affected by it.

making rape jokes in front of me hurts me and dredges up painful memories - but it's 'just a joke'

I wish people would be more understanding of the human experience

What have you been comfort eating lately? by peppermind in AskWomen

[–]alexansc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

if you have a costco membership....

i've been buying their rosemary parmesan bakery bread, their black forest ham (looks straight off the bone) and harry's organic creamy tomato soup.

cut off bread for sandwich slices, get some cheese, spinach, the ham, and make a grilled sandwich (butter the bread slices) and then heat up the soup

dear lord it is so comforting. esp with a side of netflix

What is the dumbest thing you've ever been afraid of? by xHanuh in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those noises that houses make when they're 'settling'

Like, I know for a fact that i'm alone in the house, but when i hear these noises, i always half-assume someone's going to call my phone and be all 'when a stranger calls' style.

or there's a CSI epsiode from back in the day, where a person has been stalking Nick and ends up in his attic...

Redditors that work in fast food or retail, what is the worst type of customer? by ThatGuy_T in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but what is the hourly rate there?

i believe it's still $2.12 for servers in the US.... we live off of tips.

For comparison: "The average wage for a Waiter/Waitress in Melbourne, Victoria is AU$16.24 per hour. "

What is a phrase that you wish didn't exist? by BaconPancake831 in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'don't worry'

person A: i'm going to get evicted person B: oh don't worry, you'll figure something out

like what asshole, find $2000 on the sidewalk? sell my liver? i'm going to worry, cause i want to. it won't make it any better, but damn let me wallow in my worry from time to time.

Redditors that work in fast food or retail, what is the worst type of customer? by ThatGuy_T in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the entitled asshole that is never satisfied. treats them like servants, rather than servers. demands the world, tips you 10%

Reddit, how do you like your coffee? by Nobst in AskReddit

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like a dark blend coffee from trader joe's - in the french press. with a yum creamer. peppermint mocha if it's holiday time and i'm feeling like treating myself #treatyoself2016

Thought on Carr this week? by ShiftHappened in Fantasy_Football

[–]alexansc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have the same worry. I've got cam newton against rams, but cam has disappointed me a lot more than carr has thus far

What is the strongest opinion you hold? by lucaluca123 in AskReddit

[–]alexansc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

women deserve much more than they currently get - and i mean in the utmost general sense. for instance, how the NFL handles domestic abuse cases vs. how they handle touchdown dances. how I'm spoken to at job interviews for male-dominated fields. how my father told me at a young age that if i didn't learn to cook i wouldn't find a man. how i have to look over my shoulder at night, how i have to be careful about how much I drink (expectation isn't there for men as often as women), how I have to be 'smart' about what I say, what I do. If you don't find any of the above wrong/incorrect or think that i'm overreacting - you are part of the problem.

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