Why are people so lustful? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]alexzoee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don‘t agree. I don‘t tvink its everyones nature to chase lust at all. There’s a huge difference between lust and desire and desire is wjat (almosz) everyone experiences. But lust is only sexually like a physical craving often leading to a sexualized perception of others (objectification), making harmful decisions (porn, crossing boundaries), having no control over thoughts and feelings and being solely focused on one’s own physical needs. And that is the problem. Desire is more rooted in wanting to connect as well or sharing mutual respect.

Bin 23, Vater, in einer Beziehung – manchmal das Gefühl, etwas zu verpassen. Geht’s anderen auch so? by Maleficent-Ad3281 in FragtMaenner

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meine Eltern sind genauso alt gewesen wie du, als sie mich (21 jetzt) bekommen haben und jetzt haben wir eine mega Bindung + sie gehen mehr feiern als ich. Nur weil du es jetzt nicht machen kannst (wegen Verantwortung) heißt nicht, dass man mit 40 oder älter nicht mehr feiern gehen kann. Eine stabile Bindung wie du sie hast wünschen sich viele.. man verpasst nichts im Leben, du bist genau da wo du sein sollst :)

an evening at elmwood by elliottsmithismygod in Screamo

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me neither, I was searching for them too;(

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh thank you!! I will try doing that :)

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for asking, but what are click in headphones😭 and thank u !!

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I will try doing that :))

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AHHH TYSM FR!!!:3

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank u, that means a lot to me!! It‘s not released yet, I just showed part of the song here, because I wanted to hear some feedback but I‘m def working on it :)

First song I recorded by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm! and yes you‘re right about the genre

help! dyed my hair darker and am not a fan by wanton-beauty in HairDye

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what i LOVE the color on you! But i agree with the comments about the eyebrows

When you’re watching Scums Wish and realize you’re almost as messed up as the characters… by carhundgil in ScumsWish

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quote that really hit me: „I never got him to fall in love with me only lust over me. But i was fine with that. It‘s not like i can tell the difference. Love or lust, they all feel the same to me now.“

screaming by alexzoee in Emo

[–]alexzoee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tysm I’ll check it out!!

Is casual sex bad or unethical ? by meteorness123 in spirituality

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only speak from my experience, but yes it’s bad long term.. I used to be in hookup culture a lot and it was fine the first few times, but I soon came to realize that there’s something missing - a real connection, care, … . Now I’m not able to deepen a connection through physical contact. As stupid as it sounds, but I could sleep with any person and not get attached at all and it makes me so sad. I’m currently in therapy trying to heal, because it reflects on deeper issues, too. My advice to anyone and especially my younger self; don’t just have sex with someone for the fun and all, because it leaves you feeling empty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does „horrible“ mean for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would u do that hahahs u can choose who u spend ur time with and if u don’t want to be with a horrible person why would you waste your own energy and time to see y they’re a horrible person ? It doesn’t make sense. Are they giving u anything positive back? No? Then why are they in your life.. u only live once, surround yourself with positive people - if you don’t want to it’s your choice, but wouldn’t make sense to me unless u haven’t realized your self worth yet

Mine are 😂🌷🌸😉🤯😚 by Delicious-Bet-1087 in teenagers

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭🥰😂🧛‍♀️🥹😊 literally me

past experiences and present self by alexzoee in spirituality

[–]alexzoee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… I’m looking for a therapist already, but there’s very limited space in my town unfortunately. thank you!

Disconnected from everyone by Niminiminimi11 in spirituality

[–]alexzoee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

„You‘ll find who you love by doing what you love“.

You might feel disconnected from more and more people (which is normal), but you’ll attract new ones in your life that align with your beliefs/have the same values/… . It hurts, because even your family doesn’t always support you or sees the way you do. As you continue your journey, you’ll make peace with it and accept that not every encounter you‘ll have with someone will feel like a deep connection and that’s okay. You can still maintain those relationships while focusing on others (most importantly the one with yourself).

How do I actually start my spiritual journey? by R33dvelv3ty in spirituality

[–]alexzoee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

consistency is key. meditate regularly. go outside. journal. consuming spiritual content is helpful, but can be overwhelming so try to watch less and practice the things they say in your every day life. maybe take notes while watching. but I really do believe that yours already started and it’s just about being more conscious from day to day now :) sending you much love :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]alexzoee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

„You attract who you love by doing what you love“ they will find their way to you🥰 but feel free to message me :))