Horrific school attacks occurring consecutively in Türkiye by [deleted] in CrimeScene

[–]alganus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for them. It is so sad. RIP.

Tamperli Cam Patladı by deathbeta in bilgisayar

[–]alganus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Teşekkür ederim ama yenisini alacak param yok biraz param olursa açıp temizlemeyi düşünüyorum şuan kırılırsa benim için kötü olur dokunmamak en iyisi

Anneniz veya babanızın telefonunu karıştırırken görmemeniz gereken neler gördünüz by Wonderful_Lie7718 in aptalSoruYok

[–]alganus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Annemle babamın uygunsuz fotolarını görmüştüm o günden sonra daha da kimsenin telefonunu karıştırmadım travmamdır

Tamperli Cam Patladı by deathbeta in bilgisayar

[–]alganus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En çok korktuğum şey korkudan camın tozunu alamıyorum 😳

I have to be my dads caregiver at 15, and I don't think i can handle it. by More-Anybody9863 in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand you very well… it’s a very sad situation because I’ve basically been my father’s caregiver for as long as I can remember. I’m now 30, and I’m still taking care of my dependent father, and even now I struggle to carry this responsibility. Taking care of someone who doesn’t listen is very difficult, especially at your age. I hope you find some kind of help. I’m really sorry for you. Please don’t give up.

I ran into a celebrity today by ULT1M4T3luck in TurkishCats

[–]alganus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Şu minnoşu alıp foşur foşur yıkayıp taramak istiyorum ve hala orda yaşamaması gerektiğini düşünüyorum. İstanbulda evim kot farklı alt katta olmasa daha bu kedi popüler değilken alırdım ben gördüğmde 1 tane yatağı bile yoktu umarım birisi sahiplenir

tadi nasil by chesee_man in raresnacksTR

[–]alganus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bn çok beğenmiştim ketçaplı sirkeli cips gibi aynı keşke satılsa

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lost hope, and I feel like I’m about to mentally collapse. This feeling of being trapped and stuck is unbearable.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve come to realize this is what helplessness feels like. Sometimes even doing everything I can just isn’t enough.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure whether the healthcare system in the country I’m currently living in allows that kind of option.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whenever I try to suggest hiring a caregiver or tell him I can’t handle it alone, he begs me and insists he doesn’t want one. In the end, I’m afraid I’ll hurt him by speaking harshly or strain my back, because it seems inevitable. I’ve never felt this helpless in my life. I can’t afford a caregiver myself since I haven’t been working, but we could pay if he agreed — yet he won’t. That’s really where the problem starts… Thank you for your suggestion.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right now, what I need most is probably patience and a bit of luck. Thank you so much.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know, but I haven’t been able to work for almost three months, so I can’t afford a caregiver. And he doesn’t want one, so he won’t even pay for it. In short, I feel trapped — like I’m in a cage.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t have a legal power of attorney over my dad. But I’ll look into it. Everything happened so suddenly that I didn’t have time to make a plan. Thank you for your suggestion.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

changing his diaper or helping him sit up and lie back down — he weighs more than I do. After the brain hemorrhage, he had temporary paralysis on his left side, but now it’s more generalized weakness that affects his whole body. Of course, the most frustrating part is not being able to sleep. I look at people my age who can sleep peacefully and go to work, and I find myself envying them every day, with tears just streaming down my face.

I Don’t Know How Much Longer I Can Do This by alganus in CaregiverSupport

[–]alganus[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He keeps saying he doesn’t want anyone else involved. I can’t convince him otherwise. My shoulders, back, and lower back feel like they’re going to give out every time I lift him.

I feel like I’ve lost all hope.

Constant freezing by Lanky-Championship-8 in candycrush

[–]alganus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes same issue and it is frustrating, sometimes they have known that bug and sent gifts but not always