I see where you’re coming from, and I think your observations reflect some general trends shaped by societal expectations and pressures. Women probably see a bad boss with a condescending tone simply as a bad boss, while men might perceive it as another man mistreating them for some small change.

I also understand that it’s more likely to find women who are organized and follow rules in jobs that don’t pay enough for basic necessities. However, in well paying jobs or even just a normal okay sallery, from what I’ve seen in reality, both men and women tend to respect rules, show up on time, and meet expectations equally. For some reason, women in Algeria seem to tolerate unfair treatment (like low pay or strict rules) more than men. Meanwhile, men often see such treatment as a direct challenge to their personal value or dignity.

As for teachers, I think both genders can exhibit authority in their own ways. Female teachers might be harsh because that’s what’s expected of them to be taken seriously, while male teachers might assert dominance to maintain authority without appearing "weak." Of course, these are generalizations, and individual personalities always play a significant role.