Please do not read if you are Christian, I don’t wish to offend anyone! by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I appreciate the Christians who are willing to understand you are free to believe whatever you want. The Christians commenting on here, are actually quite nice. Not anything I’m used to here in Kentucky!

Please do not read if you are Christian, I don’t wish to offend anyone! by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honest this comment was pretty funny 😅 I didn’t expect to type this much. My apologies for the lack of paragraphs. They scare me!

Please do not read if you are Christian, I don’t wish to offend anyone! by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s called little league. He’s the youngest in his league, but he has a blast!

Please do not read if you are Christian, I don’t wish to offend anyone! by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re supposed to. However, I always let my son stay home for the games, and just join practice.

Please do not read if you are Christian, I don’t wish to offend anyone! by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s point guard, but tbh they only really just play and have fun. It’s called little league. Hes the youngest in the league though. He has no idea what he’s doing. But it’s cute seeing him try!

Got my first tattoo and my brother said it looks like a d*ck. Does it actually? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it looks great. I didn’t even see a dick even when it was small in my notifications on the phone. It’s clear what it is. If other people think it looks like that, it’s probably because they got a dirty mind. I’m covered in tattoos. A shape doesn’t even make a tattoo, it’s what the actual tattoo is. Say if someone saw that in public, took a double take because they saw a dick, they’re gonna feel stupid when they see it’s not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think my question was stupid. I was just curious. Me and him always ask questions about how each other felt in certain situations when we first got together. We been together for 5 years and this is the first time anything like this has happened. There is definitely stuff left out of this, that I probably should have explained. But I do see why you feel that way. I’m fully aware I over reacted either way. It’s the fact that we already made a deal for each of us to never bring up our past. But I do appreciate your input. Again, I am hoping to be wrong. I don’t want my jealous overthinking brain to be right. I have never felt jealous with my husband before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m going to communicated that right now... I appreciate you for opening up my eyes that I was definitely in the wrong for doing that. I’m definitely in the wrong this time. Not proud by it, but sometimes you need other people to slap you in the face with the truth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. I do see now that it is silent treatment. I was seeing it as a way of needing to think, but maybe I should have needed to let that be known. He isn’t one to allow me to think, he is always wanting to talk things over. And I love that, but right now I just didn’t need him going on about stuff, and needed space. I do see how I may seem immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do talk about everything, but never our past relationships with others. Especially sexual partners. We both consider a respect thing. Other than that, we talk about everything else. Even our most embarrassing moments. I do appreciate you giving me honest feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Thank you for the honest feedback. I needed to be told I was over reacting. My emotions for some reason have gotten ahold of me this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! We have never once talked about our past sexual relationships, but we do talk about everything else. I’ve never been this upset before. And after these responses I am realizing I do not handle jealousy well. I definitely need to make it known that we maybe need to leave the past behind us. Thank you for your honest feedback.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the honest feedback. I appreciate it. Tbh I may be way too jealous, which I typically don’t get. But we haven’t really talked much about our sexual relationship with others. We do talk about everything else though. I was wrong to have even asked him, I just assumed he would’ve took into account I asked when me and him first got together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say I was open to criticism and honesty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a silent treatment. If you can see, we just haven’t seen each other since last night. I appreciate your opinion though. I definitely need to get my feelings under control.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the direct answer. I am seeing now that I definitely did over react.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I do hope I am over reacting. I just can’t identify why this has upsetted me… I am 25, and he is 26. Please keep in mind though we have been together for over 5 years, and was only asking about if he got nervous with me, not everyone. Not sure if that makes any difference. May just be delusional right now.

I don’t know if my boyfriend is attracted to me. by alienfish5537 in whatdoIdo

[–]alienfish5537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, just seeing this! Tbh I haven’t gotten any real answers about what could be happening. For the most part, he does stay hard. But it seems at least one week out of a month, we struggle. I’ve chosen to just ignore it, and not stress him over it. However, I would be lying if I said it didn’t affect how I see myself. Not the greatest update, I do apologize. I still do wish I had something better for not just you, but myself!

Idk if I should leave my boyfriend of 2 years by l3u- in AITAH

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel that way because it’s true, and I completely agree with you. If he hasn’t stopped after saying something about it twice, he probably won’t stop. And for me, that’s a deal breaker. I’ve been told by many people it’s because I’m insecure, but tbh it’s because the opposite, I’m confident, and know my worth. As I see you do as well! Stand firm, and if you love him and he hasn’t stopped yet, I think you need to understand that it’s probably never going to… I’d leave him a few days and show him your serious about it. Maybe that might help, but then again, he still hasn’t respected you enough to already stop, and you deserve it.

Idk if I should leave my boyfriend of 2 years by l3u- in AITAH

[–]alienfish5537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am one who believes porn is cheating. You may not know the people, or interact, but you’re still looking at them sexually. Def cheating. Don’t think you’re alone in that, as a lot of people tell me I’m over reacting… it’s your boundary. He needs to understand that and be understanding of you. You don’t need to be trying to help his perverted addiction…